Can you imagine not having sex during a bit more than 10 years?

[DiegoO]

That's my story. How did I manage to hold up myself? Lot of cybersex, lot of it. Do I wanna keep doing cybersex? I wanna crye sometimes. In the romantic sphere, the closest thing I've had was a 3 years LDR.

Why did I decided to not have sex?

⚠️Short answer: my financial future is uncertain. I can not afford nothing else than some of my personal needs.

My "father" commited fraud with a land my mom owns by right (family legacy). He and the people who has lived in the land for years (illegally), created a net of corruption that crippled my capacity to be economically independent. How did they do? My "father" stole the legal documents of the land and made party with it, along with the illegals. I can not forgive him. Not just did he took away several opportunities from me, he also do not recognize the damaged he's done to the entire family.

To think that my life isn't steady at 32, just makes me really, really angry at him. Beside the impact of his behavior in the family wellbeing.

My mother has chronic health issues. I take care of her, whild my brother's help out, economically.

[midnightmoon05]

Yeah I know one or two no sex up to their 49s, 50s… (one male one female)
I know some got played
I know some got lied to and lost their whole life savings..
I know some who went from nothing to do well… then lost everything… had to restart and make it again…
i know some who lost everything and went downhill forever…
I also know some who are under worse circumstances…
many on this site…I talked to many…
some get out… most don’t
There are a lot of who want us down… we have to do our best to get out
I hope you can get out.

[DiegoO]

I am trying. If it wasn't for my college degree I would remove my "father" surname and leave my mother one (it would take a lot money and time at this point). At least my brother's can easily wipe up his surname. They only have their highschool degree, so they would face less trouble in the legal process.

[menina]

Well, I've never had sex and I'm 29 so yes I know how it feels. You told us about your story and you have every right to be mad at your father. What he did was unfair and mean.

[PrettyPriya]

Hi 😊

[menina]

@PrettyPriya Hi! I messaged you. :)

[DiegoO]

It just completely blows my mind to think where I am now. I honestly thought I was gonna have a great life at this age. The man who I call "father", I don't even recognize him as so, what father would do that? What father would ruin (or try to ruin) the life of his children and partner? He is going from my mother's home. My mom deserves better. Like her, my brother's and I doesn't have to submit to his wickedness.

[menina]

I truly understand you. I know it's easier said than done but perhaps you can think about what you can do now to make your life better. It will help you to build a better future for yourself. As someone who has a shitty father I know exactly what you mean. I'm glad you don't believe in him and you don't have to fall into his trap.

[PrettyPriya]

@menina Check DM quick love.

[menina]

@PrettyPriya I did and I replied you.

[DiegoO]

It sucks but life goes on.

[menina]

@diegoo That's true.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah!! I've already done it for over 2 decades, now!! I'm more than half way into my third decade! Anybody wanna break the dry spell?

[MountAverage]

Umm, you didn't have sex in ten years because of your financial situation? What?

[DiegoO]

Ah, yeah. Even the poorest of the poorest have sex, but I rather don't risk it. I don't feel safe engaging in sex, living a country that's economically, politically and socially wreck. I rather be steady economically, before anything else.

[DiegoO]

*My father is really trying hard to ruin the whole family.

[DiegoO]

Lol, do you have any idea what is like to live in the second poorest country of The Americas? No, YOU HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE. Do you know what is like to deal with a "father" who wants to ruin you economically? I don't know if you fucking know, but sum up the two scenarios I explained and if you have some common sense, you'll damn understand sex can mean (under those circumstance): the imminent danger of fucking up your life more with either a viral STD (they don't have cure) or an unwanted pregnancy. If you think is nonsense, FUCK OFF.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I cannot imagine living in your circumstances/

[UniquelyBasic]

I haven't had sex so , yeahh.😐

[IsoUser]

I can't imagine not having sexual relationships with a girl for 10 years let alone 1 or 2 considering how much I actually cum. I cum twice inside any girl I have ever been with only my mom knows that. Because I always came twice with his sister.