Can you orgasm without dirty talk?

I can't seem to have an orgasm without dirty talk, I need to say some really freaky stuff and in turn have it said to me. How about yourself can you get off without dirty talk?
No, I don't need to talk dirty to orgasm
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Yes, It is a must
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I don't like to talk dirty during sex, nor hear it
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  • It's pretty normal for some woman (and some men) to need this to feel excited enough to reach orgasm. Woman in particular need to really feel it and want it, and dirty talk can do that like nothing else.
    To answer your question, you're not the only woman who has trouble reaching orgasm without dirty talk xD

    Is this affecting a relationship you're in?

    • Not at all, my bf likes dirty talk, he's really freaky and I love it

    • Great! Keep at that shit! xD

  • depends on who and how they say it. some people are gifted with a really dirty tongue others just kill the buzz

    • No I'm really good at it and so is my bf. my ex wasn't good at it and it was uncomfortable. I can come without it but sex is so much better with dirty talk

    • tell me about it, but I'm not much of a talker if you know what i mean. i find actions to be more effective than words. so i try to find other uses for my mouth ;) unless I'm being spoiled then watch out for the language haha

    • Hahaha I know what you mean but I'm pretty much adventurous beyond measure soo.. Lol

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  • I hate dirty talk lol I can't take it seriously when someone does it. It ruins the mood for me.

    • They're not doing it right. Because me and by bf like sexting and phone sex when we are apart I think the dirty talk just naturally becomes part of our sex life I think. Make sense?

    • Yeah I know lots of people like it but it doesn't work for me lol it never has. I find it funny but not hot at all lol like ok I do enjoy pictures and things like "i want to fuck you", etc but if you start giving me DETAILS about the things you want to do to me, I start laughing.

    • Lool understandable, my ex was like that. Once I was like "talk dirty to me" (this was during sex) and he was like "pig shit, dog feces" then begin pissing himself laughing. Let's just say aex didn't continue that night. I found it hilarious tho and just finished myself off :)

  • I just don't need it. Try more physical showing then talking

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  • I've never used dirty talk in my life.
    I just use sex, and it works exceedingly well.

  • I don't need it to orgasm but it can be nice every now and then