Can you please give me your opinions?

[Anonymous]

We didn't have sex because he was not looking for a relationship and i was a virgin and younger. So he said that even if he thinks im really attractive i should find someone that's gonna spend time with me cause if i get attached to him i would probably end up feeling used or something like that. He kept texting me tho.
Finally i found someone else. He was also quite older than me. I lost my virginity to him. He (the first guy) was asking me who was the other guy that i had sex with. He seemed kinda jealous. At this point i was kinda ignoring him because I felt rejected and i couldn't understand why he keeps texting me if he doesn't want anything from me.
He was texting me a lot and he was insisting to meet me. We finally met. We started kissing and we were about to have sex to his car but he cumed immediately after penetrating me. Then he got really insecure. I wasn't expecting that from him cause he seems really confident and i know he's experienced. Again he started asking about the other guy's size, how it was with him and stuff like that. He even texted to ask me about that right after returning me home. He said he's gonna call me but he didn't. After a few months he saw me twice with the other guy. He only texted me to wish me good luck for my exams. I think about him a lot. I really wanna text him and meet him again but i don't know how he's gonna react. What do you think? Do you think i should text him?

[Anonymous]

Please don’t waste your time on that guy. If the one you’re talking to now just doesn’t cut it, then drop him. But don’t go back to the other one, because he has flat out told you that he does not want a relationship, so don’t waste time trying to change that. He is probably keeping his distance because he knows where you want things to go ultimately. When he comes back, it’s because either something else didn’t work out, or because he is learning that you will allow him to walk in and out of your life. Already you said you didn’t wanna have sex bc he didn’t want a relationship, then you go bang some other guy you just met, then you go back and let that dude get his d*ck wet. So now he’s probably feeling like you’re open to sex, relationship or not, and I don’t get the impression that you want friends with benefits or booty calls. So close that door dude.

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer. I'm not looking for a relationship. We didn't have sex because he didn't want to. Not because i wanted a relationship.

[Asker]

I'm just really attracted to him but i think you're probably right.

[Opinion Owner]

I only referred to that bc in you started your post with “we didn’t have sex because he wasn’t looking for a relationship and I was a virgin and younger”, so I definitely got the impression that you were looking for a relationship and he wasn’t lol. Still, he sounds inconsistent, and although you find him attractive, you could be end for a world of disappointment dealing with him.

[RemoErdosain]

He really liked having sex with you, and would want to do it again, probably, but he's feeling insecure and embarrassed because of last time and the fact you found another man you're having sex with. You could try to reach out to him and tell him that you would like to do it again with him, and see what he says

[RemoErdosain]

This, of course, if you aren't in a relationship with the other guy. How serious is the relationship with this other guy? Are you just fuck buddies with him? Is it not exclusive?

[Asker]

Yeah i will think about that. Thanks for your answer! I wasn't in a relationship with the other guy and now we're not seeing each other anymore.

[RemoErdosain]

You're welcome, and good luck

[AustinMan]

Reach out once and only once.

[unshy1]

Move on beautiful put that idiot in your past.

[In_Trance]

let it go

[gandolph3]

Do you want tp have sex with him again

[Asker]

Yes i do

[gandolph3]

Like what

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[gandolph3]

What do you fo thats wild