Can you really tell the difference between good or bad sex if you've only been with one person?

Or do you have to have experience to know what you like?

-Personally i dont think you NEED experience to know whether the sex is good or whether you enjoy having sex with someone. I think you just know. What do you guys think?
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  • It's just like everything else in this world you only know what you were taught or what you have experienced there's different levels of levels and everything we do you can be the best of something is there still another level because new things come out every day we learn things new everyday you can say you have the best sex ever until you experience it with somebody else and you feel the difference in touch difference in everything that's being done it's like racing dirt bikes you're only as good it's the guy you're racing against you only get better when you experience better

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  • i think one doesn't require having more than one sexual partner to tell the difference between good and bad sex. personally for me, my experience with sex varies, even with the same person.
    sex today might have given me the most mind-blowing and eye-rolling orgasm, yet on a different day, i might have some trouble reaching orgasm. if the sex feels pleasurable and you have no trouble reaching orgasm, then wouldn't that check all the ticks of what one considers as good sex?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah. If you didn’t like it then clearly it’s not good sex. If the dude keeps missing the hole, or goes in the wrong one, it’s not good sex. If he can’t be bothered with much foreplay, and just shoved it in because he thinks a bit wet means that you’re ready to go, then it’s not good sex.

  • I’ve only been with one person. There are definitely times when the sex isn’t earth shaking, and there are times when it’s breathtakingly good. You’ll know.

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  • Yes. I’ve had good sex and bad sex with my one person.

  • You can, obviously, tell whether you enjoy yourself or not.
    But you also won't have any idea about how much worse or better sex could be.

    I thought my first sex was good, but then I spent 17 years having sex, and now I consider that sex some of the worst I've ever had.

  • You can certainly enjoy sex if you've never been with anyone else. There's a chance that it can be incredible. But you really have nothing to compare it to. So it's possible that you have never experienced exquisite, transcendent, mind blowing pleasure. Maybe that doesn't matter if you are happy.

  • Sure. Good sex is you had a very enjoyable orgasm as a result and you want to do it again. Bad sex is you didn't get to have an orgasm at all due being left hanging or giving up and pretending to have one so the other person would stop. Everything else falls in the middle.

  • Satisfaction is an intrinsic feeling. I dont need to try every flavor of ice-cream to understand that my first time trying cookies and cream was delicious and gratifying. If you need to try every flavor its possible that you have really High Expectations

  • You can absolutely tell the difference, If it felt amazing to you, You felt comfortable with your partner then you had amazing sex

  • I agree with you. I think a person can legitimately say the sex was good if both partners cared about each other and were open and passionate. That's much more important than knowing a bunch of techniques or unusual positions.

  • Don't get caught up in "good" and "bad" intimacy.
    It can always be good when the two people are really connected and are focused on pleasing each other and doing things each other likes.
    Bad, usually involves a selfish lover who just wants to get theirs and couldn't care less about pleasing you.

  • I think you’re right

  • I just recently heard the expression that sex is like pizza and nobody has ever had bad pizza.

  • Yeps

  • Yes.

    Granted you do need practice to be good at sex, but at the same time, things still have to fit comfortably in other things at comfortable angles and speeds for it to be enjoyable, and anatomy plays a huge role there. plus there are things like, smell, taste, etc.

  • only within the sex you have with that person. cause obviously every time you have sex with the same person is gonnabe equally good. but of course you don't have a comparison. that's actually why men prefer virgin women and why most religions came up with the great idea that women should be "pure", cause that caters to male interest.

  • There is nothing like good or bad sex. It's just when you enjoy it, it's good and sometimes you just to it for sake or mood and didn't enjoy its bad.

    But to know what sex is and what you liked and what you didn't. You need to experience it first.

  • If you feel satisfied it's good and if you don't it's bad.

  • Yes.

  • Definitely

  • if you dont have orgasm , it is bad sex

  • No...

  • I dont think so

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