Can you Share your Stories Of Sexual Harassment?


Can you Share your Stories Of Sexual Harassment ?


Obviously, sexual harassment isn't limited to public transportation only. So do you mind to share us with you story with sexual harassment?
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  • I’m going anonymous due to the fact that this a current situation in my life. There is this guy, and his actions are starting to concern me. For a while now, he has been touching me in a way I find unacceptable. He hugs me from behind me, but his hands aren’t where they should be. I push him away, and tell him to stop, but he doesn’t listen. He’s put his hand on my thigh, which I immediately take his hand off of me. He’s asked to kiss me, I tell him no. He tells me he will break up with his girlfriend so he can date me, I tell him he’s not my type. He says that one day, we will be dating, and that by the end of high school, not only will we have fucked, but we would have a baby. I tell him no, we will not fuck and I won’t have your baby. So he asks me if we ever will. I tell him no yet again. And what does he do? He continues. He asks for my phone number, I tell him no. He asks for my Snapchat and instagram, I tell him no. A friend of his, 4 years older than I tells him to dump his girlfriend to date me— says that I’m hotter than she will ever be, and how much better I’d be in other… activities— and this guy agrees with his friend. He understands how I feel about him, but he has such a big ego that he won’t accept it. He’s got connections to people I don’t want to mess with, so even though I’ve been told this is sexual harassment, I’m scared, quite literally for my life, to tell an adult. My parents know, and so do a number of my friends. It’s upsetting that we live in a world where so much evil is present, and people are so disrespectful of others.

    • This is a clear and dry case here. You clearly said ":no" multiple times and he still refused to take the direct statement (I would be downplaying it to call it a hint). Easy grounds for criminal charges.

  • It was a few months ago, I went to a party where there were probably about 11 people, all pretty good friends of mine. We drank a bit, but not nearly enough to even get tipsy really. We all camped out in our friend’s living room, 5 on the couch and 6 on the floor nearly all lined up next to each other. Of course they were all my friends so I wasn’t fussed about sleeping next to my guy friend. We went to sleep, well I fell asleep a bit before some of the other friends, but I woke up at some godforsaken hour with the guy I’d trusted to sleep next to me basically on top of me. He had pulled me as close as possible to him one arm underneath me, grabbing at my boob and the other over the top of me with his big ass hand on my bare stomach where my top had come up - his fingers dipping into my pants and stroking me at the lowest part of my stomach - and pressed so suffocatingly close to him. I managed to get him off of me and got up, he stupidly asked if I was okay and I went to the bathroom. My friend said she was trying to go to sleep on the couch just above us but could hear him talking to me while I was sleeping and actually asked me what was going on the next day. When it came up at school, they dealt with it badly and he lied about what he was doing, even the female teachers who heard my ‘statement’ altered what I said and agreed with him, though that was not what happened. :( don’t know if this classes but it happened while I was sleeping and he lied about what he’d done, and became very scary when I confronted him about it.

    • I think that u enjoyed it Right?

    • Oh lord. I don't think this one is sexual harassment, I think it is RAPE. Please gather any evidence you can and get this scumbag locked up!

  • I can share my two recent experiences, both were within a week of each other.

    Some background: I used to work at a gas station that served food and coffee. I went in from 5am to 10am just to make the coffee, keep it fresh, brew all the teas, and keep everything for the coffee stocked. Since I was there every morning I got to know the regular construction workers and truckers that came through.

    My first one: a guy cornered me for my phone number. I had no idea how to say no. I gave it the benefit of the doubt thinking he may be friendly. He decided to send me very flirty and halfly sexual messages. I explained I had a boyfriend and didn't accept his advances and after a few more texts asking if we could meet and hang out (which I said no), he stopped texting me. And then proceeded to stalk me at work instead. I hid in the back until he left. He actually recently found me on Facebook too and sent me a friend request, which I deleted.

    My second one: there was another nice guy who was a regular. He was a very nice guy and was kind to me when I started. Until one day he asked me how my night was the night before and after replying, "it was boring," he came by me later and said "you should tell your boyfriend he should be giving you more pleasure in the bedroom before someone else does so you don't have a boring night." And then he walked away. It creeped the hell out of me.

    Needless to say, I'm happy I no longer work there.

    • well done to stop work at that place , but i notice that you who encouraging those people , 1st one you who give him your phone number 2nd one you accept to talk to him freely so don't blame him.

    • How is being cornered and being friendly while working encouraging them?

    • It's not her fault for talking to people. Other people should behave correctly when talking to another human like have some god damn respect.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • What sort of detail do you want? A list of how often random women have grabbed my ass? More than I can remember, tried counting once and got up to six times in a week, that was part of the reason I moved off campus.
    How about the lass who pushed me into a corner, said she'd tell people I had tried to rape her if I stopped her and rubbed herself off on my lap?
    Recieved some made-to-penetrate (twice by force, but a hell of a lot by coercion), and domestic sexual violence as well.
    Attempted gay rape? I'm straight but I have friends and family who arn't so I've been groped, (quite a lot) and even attacked (twice)

    Want anything more specific?

  • When I was 6 or 7 years old, I was over my sisters house with her and her boyfriend. She had to go out and run some errands so I was home alone with just him. He asked me if I wanted to play 'Taste the lollipop' ... :/
    So I said yes and he came over to me, covered my eyes, and... shoved his dick in my mouth. I have other stories too but thats just one of them.

    • why you didn't tell your sister about what happened

    • At the time I was really young and didn't really understand what happened and didn't realize it was that bad. I forgot about it for many years, until I was 14 or 15 and thats when I looked back at it and thought "holy shit, thats not good" But then I thought it was way too late to tell anyone

    • Is this guy still dating your sister?

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  • I don't have a story myself, but an explanation on my thumbs up and down for this topic. Thumbs up if I agree it's sexual harassment, thumbs down if I think it's BS.

    Disclaimer: I'm not the OP.

  • Actually I'm pretty lucky... Nothing more than catcalls and snarky comments I think

    • Hope if your luck continues with you forever , sister !! :)

    • Aw aha thanks man

    • You are welcome :)

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  • I don't know if it's considered as sexual harassment but one day I was just walking alone in empty area and this guy kept following me (I am 13 and the guy looked 25) I wasn't sure if he was just going to the same place as me or not but I kind of accelerated my walk because I was a bit scared and every time I walked faster he would walk faster too to keep up with me and then he just grabbed my ass and and gave me a look and just kept walking. I know it sound like nothing but I actually was scared to death hence this had never happened to me before. (but It also was kind of my fault too, cause I was wearing short shorts)

    • Its not your fault at all!

    • Sounds like you escaped a pedophile. Please do everyone a favor and report him if you ever see him again. I would prefer painful castration over death for scum like that!

  • She---a coworker at the time---came up from behind me and grazed her hand along my lower back.

    I was 22, she was like mid-thirties.

    Apparently she liked Hawaiians and I looked like one.

  • This is what happened to me. I was walking on my trail it was a normal thing I did to get outside. I was with my friend he was nice and I didn't see a problem with him. When we got far enough in the trail he raped me.

    I don't like talking about what happened during I am not going into all that it makes me think about what happened especially cause he was my so called friend

    • And another one that happened to me I was like 10 and my mom was dating this guy he was cool but he had a major drinking problem. One night he came in my bedroom when I was pretending to sleep cause I was looking for the tooth fairy but instead of him putting money under my pillow he tried to pull down my pants... I freaked out a little and moved my sleeping position so he couldn't do that I was young I had no clue what to do he walked around my room a bit then left my room. A little bit later he came back in and... I don't want to say anymore it freaks me out

    • Iam sorry for what happened to you my friend , hope that u are ok from that now

    • Hope you gathered evidence so we can get that scumbag off the streets.

  • This one @$$#013 in HS would "honk" my boobs and butt all the time. They kept suspending him but he kept doing it like he could give a $#!+ about the trouble he could get himself in or the grief he causes others :(

    • Still do that !! so why you let him to do that until now if you don't like

    • I don't and haven't seen him since high school

    • So how he still harassing you?

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  • Can i say if you don't mind, that it is a little bias where is the answer for those who haven't got an experience.

  • When i was 12 my friends older brother used to make me give him oral in the woods after school for like 2 years every day during school.

  • I was 7.
    It was in grade 1 on the jungle gym, this boy Kyle and I were talking and the next thing he hand his hand in my pants.
    I don't remember much of what happened after that, just that the school didn't do anything about it. All he got was detention :( :(

    • did he rap you?

    • No he didn't

  • Yep, I was 15 and having tuition to help me pass some exams. I went to a tuition centre and usually there would be small class of 4-5 but because I was only free on one day I had to have a one to one session.
    It was a male tutor and although he wasn't allowed to, he shut the door when we were together but I thought he just did it to block out the noise.
    However every lesson instead of helping me with maths questions he would tell me he wanted to talk about life and school with me and he would tell me what happened during his day etc.

    At first I thought it was fine that he wanted to chat and not just teach me maths related things. However, he started asking me personal questions and complimenting me a lot. I had a little bit of eczema on the back of my hand which I used to scratch and he's take my hand and stroke it. Thats when I thought this was starting to get creepy.

    One day he asked me about my body image and told me to turn around for him and he looked me up and down and that really freaked me out.
    I was slightly reluctant to go to his class but this time he actually touched and stroked my thigh. I ran out of the building and ran home, pretty upset.
    I told my mum he was asking creepy questions but never told the whole truth.

    That day was the last time I saw him.

    • It would have been better if that was also the last day of his freedom and of his not being on the sex offender registry.

  • When I was about 13-14 I was at a shopping center alone and while I was walking there an older man came up to me from behind and said "I'm going home to masturbate now". I got scared and didn't say anything, I didn't even look at him, I just quickly walked in to the closest store (it happened to be a toy store) and went and stood next to a woman in line. The man was standing outside the store and looked straight at me through the window. I pretended to talk to the woman, hoping he would think it was my mom and maybe he did because he watched us a short while before he quickly left the place...

    • Nice trick

    • You were able to shake him off with that trick. But please, report him if you see him again. He is a threat to all minors. Seeing it was some time ago, it is possible (hopefully) that he got caught and is at least on the registry now, if not still in prison.

  • A couple, but they aren't very nice. 😒

    • Is that happened in transportation?

    • No, I like in a rural area and it involved people I knew well.

    • You didn't resist?

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  • I've been catcalled and touched inappropriately by strangers in public spaces and my guy friends exposed me to sexual harassment by inviting other guys to comment about my body.

    Why do you want to hear the stories?

    • Just curious , and also i want forget about my exams it exploded my mind... whatever thanks for sharing your story sister :)

  • I really don't like to talk about mine

    • that's your right :)

    • It's not that I wouldn't want to share it but if I have to tell the story it reminds me bad memories of when it happened. It involved a winter night, a drunk man in a public transport and physical harassment.

    • Did he rapped you?

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  • I have many stories of sexual harrassment. I was at a party last week and there was this really hot 16 year old there, I'm friends with her mother, I got drunk and high on cocaine and every chance I got I grabbed her ass and touched her inappropriately. She did not like it at all but I didn't give a fuck.

    • hahhahaha friend of her mother

  • If you consider people trying to hook me up with girls and when it fails laughing at me as sexual harassment then that happened all throughout HS.

    There was another time where a a girl would grope me all the time in HS. People just laughed.

    I was a virgin in HS so they'd also pick at that.