Can you still have fun with your special person without resulting in sex? Like Netflix and just snack No fck?

[Pinay_ako]

Or it doesn’t matter what you do (no sex) as long as you’re with them?

[ObscuredBeyond]

It'd sure allow me to get to know you better first. Travel cooperation is a lot better than sex. It shows negotiation skills, maturity levels, concern for other, commonality of purpose or lack thereof, division of priorities, etc. In relation to way more areas of life than just the bedroom/bathroom/shower/kitchen counter/etc.

This helps develop life skills too, that would help us both a lot more, even if we end up with someone else later on instead.

As tempting as it would be to instead waste an entire afternoon on sex, spending five minutes gazing at your amazing pelvic anatomy isn't going to advance me in life. Nor does it really help you any.

Finding a sex position we both like might be fun, but it won't make me better at navigating through situations outside of a sex life.

We could make out naked on a sofa for an evening. But if you have a cousin willing to teach us how to be better at fishing, why squander the opportunity for a little knocking of boots we could easily do later?

If we together found me a dream job, the gratitude and sense of obligation to you would be based on elation. If all you did was give me the best 48 minutes of fun in the sack I've ever had, with zero protection, I'd feel obligated to you still. But it'd be motivated by doubt, insecurity, and guilt. A much inferior aftermath.

So even though you are a lust magnet, I could spend time with you doing plenty of things besides sex. And wouldn't mind at all if a majority of time spent involved no sex at all.

Same goes for any other woman who might step up to the plate. I could find her body mesmerizing. But if her sexual potential is the one and only thing she brings to the table, then I start to think she isn't the one.

I need a soul companion, not simply a living, breathing sex doll.

[Dreamclouds]

Yes, very much so, actually it feels really nice too

[TryingMyBest2]

Yes! If all you do is have sex then you aren't spending quality time together to progress your emotional attachment to each other. My last relationship, all my ex wanted to do was have sex and I had never felt more unloved and lonely than when I was with him. You need to do fun activities besides sex.

[melanieeeB]

Of course... I honestly think a relationship that only revolves around sex isn't a "forever" relationship and like what is the sense of this relationship, if you can't just enjoy the company and conversations with your partner

[VIVANT]

💯 I have never had an issue with that — at least not on my side 😂

im always clear about it so there no pressure looming

[Bexxiib]

I believe so, though my ex always wanted sex but I know I didn’t want to and then he’d result into watching football (soccer) so I’d end up doing something else. But yes I do believe people can.

[Lliam]

I love having a female best friend to hang out, go places, do thing with, snuggle, chat and confide in. All that is great. Everything isn't about sex, but I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't into sex. The whole point of a having a best friend who is female is sexuality. Otherwise, it would be no different than having a best bro friend.

Sex creates a bond. I want her to be as hungry for me as I am for her.

[Paulalove98]

Honestly I believe you should be able to. Sex is just a bonus in the relationship but being able to enjoy eachothers companies is truly meaningful and special once you find that person. Sheesh i hope someday i do.

[dustybiker]

True love. Snuggles and movies.

[LazerBean]

How special can they be if sex is required to enjoy their company?

[melanieeeB]

Uff well said lol

[SnowedIn]

Absolutely! Cooking. Movies. Walks. Shopping. Read.

[Emilyis]

of course. Every night.

[bubblegunnn]

HELL YEA BABY.. its romantic also i would be soooo down if its about horror movie.. sex is not a must

[NathanDavis]

absolutely yes... of course

we would do that every single day, one way or another... lol

spending time together and sharing all kinds of great times together was our priority, so we would do that through most of the day... and there was also time for sex as well

we could definitely have both and even more, in the same day because well... why would you not? lol

[ticklelover2045]

Yes. Several female friends and I are strictly platonic. We used to always get together without anything sexual in nature occuring and never thought about it with these friends either

[HighValue]

Sure. I wouldn't want sex every time. Sometimes I would rather have a fun board game night. Sex a couple days per week is plenty really. There are other things to do with each other to enjoy together in life.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, most of our fun together does not involve sex

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Crafteroon]

Yes. You can always have sex too, and spend time together before and afterwards. Having sex doesn't mean you have to avoid each other like the plague otherwise.

[Ilovethesunshine]

Yes absolutely the whole point is too enjoy each other's company and have a great time!

[Smoothing]

Absolutely.

[Cecinene]

Of course yes I can have fun with my bestie even without having sex.

[RavVid]

How does snuggling without it leading to sex work? There she is all close to me; I can feel the warmth of her body... Nah it ain't going to work.

[FilmGuy93]

In the past; yeah! I have to see what things will be like with this girl though