Can you tell a girl is a virgin when you have sex with her?

I'm 19, I'm a virgin but I'm ready and want to have sex. Waiting around for the 'right guy' is becoming a waste of time, but I want to know whether a guy would be able to tell I'm a virgin when I have casual sex with him?
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  • I would say they will know it, based on your reaction and state
    I lost my virginity in a casual hook up, never regreted it, we even hooked up a few times
    But I told him I was a Virgin and he didn't mind, still had sex
    You're right waiting is a waste of time, do it and get over it with a guy who you chose and then just learn, after a few times it will start feeling amazing, for me it was after the 5th time sex but, everyone is different
    Also the best advice I can give, the first time when he enters your vagina, breathe, I was so fucking nervous and all and I remembered in that moment my best friend telling me to breathe and well it did wonders with me

  • you can only tell if her hymen is broken. chances are a guy doesn't know because they don't have a hymen that breaks during sex on the first time like us girls do

    i remember when i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time (he didn't know). when we were done, he told me it was pretty good and i said "really? for my first time it was good for you?" and he said he couldn't tell that it was my first time having sex

  • I fooled my first guy into thinking I wasn't a virgin. It's not that I lied about it. We never had a discussion of it, i just really like sex and it all came naturally to me so he thought I'd done it before. If you're trying to hide it: Just take initiative and don't be shy or hesitant. Use dirty talk to distract him if you're nervous.

  • No, there is no way to tell if a girl is a 'virgin' or not unless she explicitly states that.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

Most Helpful Guys

  • It is best and you will have the best experience if you know the person for little bit and are comfortable with them. This is most important if you want a great first time.
    I can 100% tell if someone is a virgin during sex, and any man that has had sex before can tell. The best option and how I lost my virginity is just to simply tell the person when you are in bed with them. They WILL know what to do. They will take it slow and teach you.
    They guy, if he is decent, after you have picked him out, will teach you and will be very kind and patient.
    In the mean time, watch a lot OF PORN. AND MASTURBATE. LOT.

  • Generally, her lack of experience would be a pretty good indication.

    Even if you know what to expect, there really isn't any way to disguise the fact that you're experiencing it for the first time. Your reactions would most likely give you away.

    Why not just tell the guy you're a virgin. There's no shame in it, and he could possibly use that information to make it more enjoyable for you.

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  • Yes, vagina would be so tight and it might hurt a little bit in the first time

  • Well, if your hymen is intact and it bleeds upon penetration he's gonna know right away. Otherwise, he won't know (or care) unless you tell him.

  • If here is foreign DNA in your vagina , you can be proved to be a non virgin. Virgins usually have a tight vagina and they are usually shy when they are naked.

  • Not unless you say anything

  • Yes you can.

    • How can you tell?

  • Probably only by the way she behaves.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA&t=5s
  • She really tight, she is shy, hesitant to take control, etc

  • do experiences first, look for a nice boy and be happy

  • usually the girl who is a virgin is shy

    • aren't you a virgin?

    • yes but I have done other things with a girl then sex

  • probably

  • Meh just be honest. I really have not met any other guys that found it to be a turn off besides to me if I knew it was her first time I'd try just a little extra harder to make it better.

  • i would relly recomend wating. (im 21 and have been wating dont regret it one bit.) but yes. there will be blood and a lot of pain for you.

  • No, they cannot tell.

  • You are correct. Waiting is a huge waist of life. Just start fucking guys and having fun. If one of your lovers asks you if you're a virgin or not, then just say you're not.

  • Yes you can tell... when she thinks you are a sex God but you only did missionary with one stroke... and 2 minutes of action...1 minute and 30 seconds was spent trying to make it last...

    • Bruh she is a girl

  • You might not feel anything when you have sex the first couple times, it's normal