Can you tell if a guy is circumcised when he has an erection?

I’ve been hooking up with this guy for a while and I never really paid attention to his dick when it wasn’t hard. When it was, there was always action going on so it’s not like I ever had the occasion to look at it and examine it 😂 one day he just walked past the bed naked after sex and I noticed, and out of surprise I asked “are you circumcised?” (In the country where I come from it is really just made for religious reasons, white Christian/atheist guys don’t do it so it was surprising for me that he was/I have never been with anyone who was).

He he treated me so badly for not having noticed before, he answered as if I was stupid and inexperienced and hadn’t noticed because of that. It really annoyed me because he’s younger and less experienced (I’m totally fine with it) than I am and it feels like that bothers him a lot and was very happy to take this occasion to make himself feel better.

Was i supposed to notice by having sex with him/giving him bjs?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It should definitely be noticeable that his penis is intact (has its foreskin) when his penis is soft. For most guys with intact penises, the foreskin naturally retracts from the head when he's erect. But I don't understand why your boyfriend is making such a big deal about it.

    • Because he’s a dickhead. He’s not my boyfriend when it happened we had hooked up max 15-20 times of which the first 7-10 we were drunk. And literally the only time I paid attention at his dick when it wasn’t hard was the time I noticed he was cut

    • Plus like he isn’t very clear about where my clit is so I’m like still doing better than him

  • With circumcised penises, there is almost always a noticeable scar line, with a color difference on either side of the scar, with uncircumcised penises, this scar doesn't exist.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes... it's hard not to notice what's inside you, like check is that shit ain't a fake

  • You can tell if a guy is circumcised when he gets hard.

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  • If you've done any kind of foreplay where you touched his penis I would think you could tell the difference.

    • I mean by the time he takes his pants off he’s always hard already, how can I tell with the jeans fabric over it

  • Do u just fuck and sleep how have u never looked at what goes inside of u

    • Pretty much

    • That's vary sloppy no wonder he didn't take it well

  • It's kinda like saying do you have tits after sex. Made him feel forgettable.

  • Yeah, you'll always be able to tell if a guy is circumcised if you know what the difference, but if you had no experience then I wouldn't e expected you to know.

  • Of course you can tell that he's circumcised. Especially when it's erection time

  • Well when you have sex with a man.. that is the first thing women notice. It's not the end of the world though. Maybe he got upset because he thought you weren't into it.

  • Of course

  • Yes by the scares and softness of the erection

  • You should be able to tell yes. He shouldn’t have got mad though. I mean really? But You would prob know by a HJ or BJ. When your stroking you would feel if there was skin pulling back near the head or not. If you touched the head of it inserting it into you you’d know too if you just felt head you’d know it was circumcised versus if you felt skin.