Casual Sex, is it bad?

[Anonymous]

I used to be in a 7 year relationship and had only been with one person sexually. Since that ended 2/3 months ago I’ve slept with 3 other people. One was a friend I’ve know for a while and the other was a mutual friend that I’d met a few times. The last one was someone I met in a club.

im not doing anything bad but I feel a little bit trampy. What’s your thoughts on casual sex?

[ohshee]

For me I think it's great what your doing I'm happy that you are doing what you're doing because you're exploring you're experiencing something through this beautiful. We could read all the self-help books in this world and we still wouldn't know what were you doing LOL I have a different outlook on this because I believe we all have energy with inside of us we are energy and when two energies bond together it is the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel in this world and until you experience that you wouldn't even understand it. I mean it is the peak of all peaks of feeling good it will take your breath away and the thing is is you don't even have to have sex to feel this I mean I could talk to you on the phone and I could give you the better orgasm than you've ever had in your life it is just because I understand energy I think you are a grown woman and I think it's nobody else's business and I really say I hope that you understand what I'm saying because I want you to find that experience I want you to experience at Peak of all Peaks because it will blow you away it is so beautiful and once you experience that you will Krave it so I hope the next guy that you make love to her he makes love to you if he makes it all about you and he takes you to that Peak because if not you are missing out it is just beautiful

[Dargil]

Not yet, but you do not want to build up a chart. I would not characterize 4 as excessive but science has concluded that those who have excessive "numbers" gradually lose their appetites for intimacy and commitment with each successive partner. Why sluts become ever more slutty.

[Anonymous]

Sex is fun. And I have often enjoyed casual sex with a friend the most. Hook ups seem 50/50. Enjoy being naughty!

[LiLaLydia]

No do whatever makes you happy and ignore any closed minded people telling you it's bad

[loves2learn]

You do you. Sounds like you needed to get that out of your system. Good for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like you are venting your anger at the breakup by rebelling against your own sexual mores. Are you ready to settle down again?

[DonkeyDan]

Casual sex is absolutely fine as long as you're being sensible and safe, and all parties know its just casual sex.

[Albino010]

It's not for everyone. If you are ok with it, fine, but if you feel bad or sad after it, don't do it.

[Cubus]

I'm not that much a fan. Maybe I'm quite conservative, but I think sex should be based on trust.

[MountAverage]

Why would it be bad?

[jahaims]

I'm not a casual sex kind of person. Idc about sex without being emotionally connected. If you feel guilty maybe reevaluate your morals. Do you feel trampy because your own moral values or because of societies?

[Shamalien]

Casual sex is not the greatest idea since it can have a lot of consequences... but if you are going to do it, best be with someone you know and trust. Moving from partner to partner and sleeping with strangers in my opinion is pretty stupid and trashy

[elisharedwings]

Not really

[Asker]

In what way?

[Bdsmaster]

Luv I am in complete favour of casual sex but I think in your case you are trying to fill a void by using sex which is not healthy.

[harrison102]

I don’t think it’s a bad thing, we all enjoy sex. But it’s not a numbers game how many people you have slept with. But again enjoy your self. There will be a time where you won’t be having any sex. So maybe do it, enjoy it why you can but be sensible about it too

[lycanthrope3]

Have fun, be safe