Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
It's been discussed before and it stays a difficult subject. Casual sex is becoming more normal every day, yet peoples visions on this seem to keep clashing.
College life
From experience I can tell you that being a girl in college is a total mindfuck. I was always on the curvy side, but I know I attracted a lot of guys. This conflict made me feel very insecure, which was a recipe for disaster. The insecurity made me stop thinking for myself (like a lot of girls in that situation) and listened to much to what others told me to do and how to behave. If those others are those pigs from student clubs and drunk guys at bars, it's not great for you and you find yourself on your knees way to often if you know what I mean...
These guys constantly rooted for me to just go for it, act sexual, have casual sex, don't say no too quickly. Now I realise that it was for there own pleasure that they rooted for me behaving like this, but back then I thought it was cool, funny, me being independent. Of course they just saw me as their free whore.
The devils threesome and the the reward
The main backlash, when I realised how much of a double standard there was, was when our student club lost a stupid game to our rival club. That night, I got really drunk and ended up having a threesome with two guys from that other club. Someone snuck in and secretly filmed a part of the action and it went online. This resulted in the other guys getting praised as legends in every club, all over town, all over the internet as well, and me getting suspended from my club for a while for bringer them to shame.
The solution?
Seems like the three of us having sex was a win for them and a loss for me. Why is that? I also payed more attention to how everyone reacted when a girl and a guy hooked up. 90% of the time the guy gets high fives, while they laugh at the girl for being a slut. A guy keeps nagging to this girl for a blowjob. Eventually she does him the favour and afterwards he goes and calls her a cum dumpster. Meanwhile, these guys push us to act that way to later slut shame us.
What do you guys think about this behaviour? Have you been in a situation like this? Do you know anyone who has?
And most important of all: how do we change this?
What Girls & Guys Said
5 36God bless little sluts!
I raise my glass to the tits and ass!
With All Do Respect.
It goes with the territory. You're right its not fair but does sorta work that way. Personally you need to start working towards people that are more matching to your mindset. Discretion.
I've known both groups of girls and guys who binge on sex. If it's what you enjoy and it's all consensual, go for it
Yes, but spare us with it. There was a guy on #OKC who asked my girlfriend (before she blocked him for that reason) if he can send her cash for having sex with her... "Porn guy!" Was her and later my first thought on such thing.
Not sure that the same thing as the original question
To some extend it might fit in, do casual sex may relax the involved people about. Then also the missing security in money may play an additional role in it. To say it in my view: Casual sex is like having a free of charge prostitute, if emotions are not kept in. I cannot do sex without emotions, I always have them for the woman I'm doing whatever I do to her.
Well drugs, alchohol and sex not a good mix unless with a responsible partner. You are lucky you didn't end up with an STD or pregnant of someone you don't even know.
Done, get over with and don't do it again
I've always respected women in and out of the bedroom. Slut shaming, no it's completely wrong. How do we fix? That's a loaded question! A lot of women act as if their bodies are made of gold and you gotta move the universe just right to get close. I can see where men feel like they accomplished a major act by being with a sexy lady. High fives of course. Is the girl a whore? Absolutely not. If all parties involved in a sexual act aren't getting what they want from it then I don't see the point.
It’s not really my thing. There is no such thing as “casual sex”. 🤣! Anything that presents the risk of creating another human isn’t casual.
I think these guys wasn't raised proper and when doing 3some make sure it's private
Hii baby
Not possible every signal time my dick has got involved things get weird iv had sex wih good friends that i no longer talk to to many emotion especially when the sex ends up mind blowing or just a hookup 70% of the time one of the two if not boh are stepping out on their other half fuck that i watch porn or call me old fashioned i want to be with the person im sharing one of the most intemet acts of life with plus sex isn't really that good tell you know the person u are having it with and that's all on this one i say good day
In my opinion if someone wants it, then they just want it!
Guys being the ever perverted creature Earth has seen, might crave for sex.
But it's totally dependent on the girl whether she wants to have casual sex or not.. it must be always YOUR choice.
And either way you should NOT regret it.
Because at the end of the day it's not what people say, it's your satisfaction and happiness that matters.
As for slut shaming, I know it's a thing but things can become positive with a good attitude, if you yourself are proud of your actions or don't give a shit about it, then that's it fuck 'em all.
And I've seen girls getting praised for screwing guys by the way.
Women are the same way "perverted" as we males are. They mostly don't admit it but want sperm in their face like we want them face-sitting (gently for me) or having #anal sex. Nothing is male-only or female-only when it comes to sexual practices. Just some conservative freaks don't believe it, any gender and sexual partner choice included!
Yes I agree, but most girls don't show it and don't like to be acknowledged for the same.
Dont
Can we have sex
of course they were just encouraging you for their own benefit. you're just now realizing that? lol dumbass
Both men and women should act like civilized beings, cont4ol their urges, and keep it in their pants
Second girl from the right in the group photo. Those tits look like they're going to burst out!
Women generally pick and choose who with and when they have sex... therefore they have a certain amount of responsibility for making better decisions. Just like how we expect people in powerful positions to make better decisions than average people.
Men have to generally work through female bullshit tests and games to get sex, therefore if they get an easy female they aren't looked at as badly because they are like a starving African child stumbling over something edible... even if it isn't good food, they will get to eat that day and good for them.
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True
I can also perfectly choose who I want sex with and who not. Example needed? One woman asked me to give me a blowjob if I would give her more money she already took from me.
And there are no such tests or games on us. They simply want to feel safe and comfortable with us, means "docking" their emotions to ours. Yes, stupid feminists 3.0, we males also have emotions and that is no weakness and never when we males cry!
@roland77 The amount of virtue signalling cuckolding in your comments are nauseating. Looking at your image... yeah you can not simple pick and choose who and when (consensually) Also, Having a hooker ask for more money does not equal the ability to pick and choose. Shit tests and bullshit games are constant, your inability to notice them (likely for lack of experience with them) doesn't mean they don't exist.
At this point I don’t even care. You made your choice and even now you’re complaining about your situation when no one cares about guys. So whatever, there’s your choice and you can deal with that.
You don’t even seem to grok that they it doesn’t come easy to guys to get that. Yes, the guys have at least some level of respect from that because as you admitted, it came easy to you, but not to them.
Yes, you’re less and less appealing with each addition to your body count. Still good for a fling, but you move farther and farther from long term material because no one wants to invest in that girl.
You even phased it as *you doing them a favor.*
Unless you can make men and women equally attractive to each other and have perfectly proportional desires for each other then you don’t get to change a thing.
90% of slut shaming is women being toxic toward other women. The other 10% are men who think it's normal to slut shame because they see the example women set constantly.
Women do a hell of a lot of slut shaming!