It's naturally to want to fuck other women. But thats pretty fucked up. Especially while you are waiting. It doesn't sound like he places you in high value. The probably here is not that he was masturbating or that you caught him. The problem is that he cared so little about you that he chose to masturbate to a chic he knows in real life than spend time with you. Incredibly fucked up.
What if the girl was just a random IG chic that he didn't know? Would that change my opinion?
yes. I dont see what he did as that big a deal. The problem and the offense is that it was a girl that he actually knew in real life. He was having fantasies about fucking an actual girl other than you when you were wanting to be with him in that moment. Not cool at all.
What if he just randomly masturbates to girls he knows?
If he does that its not bad. on his spare time. Its kind of fucked up but we all have fantasies about people. What fucked up here is he prioritized a sexual fantasy about another woman instead of time with you. Its the fact that he knew the other woman that REALLY bothers me in combination with not being with you.
If I trully like a woman I would make out with her, tell her I was horny, or something. Or even jack off in front of her. maybe place her hand on my cock just so she understood why things were being delayed. But I feel sorry you experienced that. :(
Thanks!
There's two types of people in a relationship;
-there's those will tell you that they occasionally like to think of others in the bedroom,
-and then there's a lot of liars.
Don't pretend like you've never thought of someone else in your relationship; silence your ego and get over it.
Oh that sucks. But it is pretty normal I think. Hopefully he will try to make you feel better about it since it was your birthday, but he might not realise.
Honestly I do not think it's an issue
Normal for guys and much better for him to see her in picture than in person.
Very odd and i do not think it is healthy at all to do that.. ask him about it i guess.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Dump him. Someone he KNOWS? and on your birthday? He doesn't care about you
You're over reacting.
Come on, who takes a picture in the shower? It would be a soggy mess before he was through.
No harm unless he knows her. I mean masterbating is going to happen I mean did you stop since y'all got together? If you would have told him why are you doing that and then took over it woulda made him think twice and would be very turned on! Least most men woulda been
He does know her. And I don’t care if he watches porn and masturbates, it’s just weird to me that he does know her
If he knows her then yeah that's a different story. You have every right to be mad cause u know he's sexually attracted to her. He could have just went to a porn site if he wanted to get off so there is something there. But that doesn't mean he will act on it and try to get with her. If just be a little more cautious around her and let it roll off unless he starts texting and messaging her
I think we all do it, its a fantasy, probably makes you feel crap about your self but i dont know many people who i spoken to about sexual matters who not admitted to liking some one else
Thoughts.. he's sexually attracted to her. Maybe not emotionally, but sexually. And for you? Well, talk to him about why he's stalking and jerking off to other girls and not you lmao. Sorry it happened on your bday
Oh no I’m sorry to hear that! I’m assuming you’re upset that he was masturbating to her LOL. Anyways, is there anything specific you want to know?
Is it common for guys in relationships to masturbate to pictures of girls they know IRL?
Two things:
He's fapping to another girl. Trashy, but it happens.
He was so thoughtless and indiscreet that he let you catch him doing it. Your relationship may have no future.
90% men beat off to a image or thoughts. That's normal. Just let the shit go. If you don't it can turn into a big fight if you push this.
So just forget it.
You're wasting your time. Evidently you are unable to discern worthiness.
I give this relationship 90 days before implosion. Max.
Why the hell did you even go into the bathroom in the first place to find that out? Can you not give your man a little privacy? WHO CARES WHAT WAS ON HIS PHONE! You don't have any fucking decency to give him the room that he deserves
I went into the bathroom to brush my hair after I had showered because otherwise it becomes a tangled mess and I made a
Creepy laugh and he poked his head out but held the rest of himself suspiciously behind the curtain and then I saw it on his phone when I walked closer
Oh gotcha 😂😂😂
I understand how u must feel but in all honesty it's no different from porn
That's awful! If He was going to masturbate, He should've at least been a Gentleman and not looked for pleasure in a different Girl! That's horrible! And on your birthday? That's cruel! Ok, perhaps He didn't think about a few things, and maybe He's sorry... I hope things go well.
This is very unhealthy behavior
1) try to get the truth from him about the girl in a sneaky seductive way
2) break up with him purely out of disrespect.
Maybe if you gave him sex more than once a year he wouldn't have to do stuff like that.
We have sex daily.
Well maybe try to fake it like you're enjoying it. We don't like dead fish.
I like how you act like you’ve been in the room with us while we’ve had sex. 🙃 Sorry girls have to act with you.
Wow why is he masturbating to another girl?
You don't think a pic would last long in a shower do you? It would be falling apart faster than the story.
@Daniela1982 you got a point there. Lol
You should've taken your clothes off got in there with him and went at it. I'm assuming he had an erection since he was masturbating so he was already good to go 🤷♂️
Doing it another day... I can understand.
Doing it on your birthday... I don't understand.
Silver lining... It wasn't hard core stuff.
You should wear sexy bikinis and show your boyfriend
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