College Dating is Not a good idea!

[DabieberRoyalty]

You see him or her....BAM! Attraction levels start to increase...Then the approach begins...Compatibility is on fleek with both of you...Intimacy begins...Trust forms...It's nice..Everything is great...Both of you are on cloud nine...Then someone gets bored cause that same cycle you had with them in the beginning forms with someone else or the person was not into commitment and you found out to little to late.

I don't think it's a good idea for both guys and girls as emotions get involved...And even though they're involved you will get people who care and people who dont give a fuck in the first place. Majority of people who are in college want to fool around, have fun with no strings attached. People will do ANYTHING to get one another in bed even if it means faking genuinity.

Now I'm not saying they aren't any good people out there, trust me when I say there is but trust me when I also say they are a lot of people who are wolves disguised in sheep's clothing that you have to watch out for. ALWAYS guard your heart...And well for girls..That pussy is at stake too guard that shit with your life. Okay!

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

i know a good amount of people who dated in college and some are getting married. i think you're blowing it up way out of proportion how many people are sexed crazed maniacs. kinda like how everyone thinks it party central 24/7. also, where else are you going to have literally thousands of men/women your age in 1 centralized location? also the fact that literally everyone (me included) says that dating gets harder after graduation.

[DabieberRoyalty]

not everything is about sex people are not committed for various reasons it's not all about sex. And yes there are people who are the same age centralised in one place that doesn't mean anything. You grow into that whether in college or the corporate world. Dating depends on people. what you find difficult other people will find easy. That's because you find it hard to find someone who suits your dating compatibilities doesn't make it necessarily difficult for other people who have experienced it and got a ring put on their finger. Like I said, there are good people in college no doubt but there are people who are not all about commitment and it's not necessarily about sex.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

"... there are people who are the same age centralised in one place that doesn't mean anything. You grow into that whether in college or the corporate world"... yes it does mean something. i went to a small university with about 4.5k people (if that). that's more than 1/4 of my home town and sure as hell easily more than 5 or 6 times more than the amount of people my age in my town. and i've worked at a company and i didn't even interact with anyone close to my age. so yeah, the pool is automatically smaller and makes a difference. "what you find difficult other people will find easy. That's because you find it hard to find someone who suits your dating compatibilities doesn't make it necessarily difficult for other people who have experienced it and got a ring put on their finger"... I don't know what that has to do with anything. i can find common ground with a 35 year old chick. i just like girls my own age. college happens to have the most people my age. how's this difficult to understand?

[DabieberRoyalty]

what do you mean how is difficult to understand because I'm simply arguing the fact that your previous statement is flawed. You generalised the fact that everyone finds it difficult to go into dating after graduation. that's false. I simply mentionrd the fact that not everybody has the difficulties that youve mentioned. People dont blow the same horn. it's as simple as that. there's no brain teaser behind that.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

no, i didn't say not everyone finds dating after graduation harder, but the fact is, the dating pool is significantly less concentrated so the likelihood of finding a partner after graduation where you aren't surrounded by peers your own age makes it harder overall. let's say i have 10 socks in a room. they're all easy to find. now take those same socks and spread them around a house. those same rocks are there, but the likelihood of finding them are significantly less. you say it's a bad idea cause people just want sex. that may be for some, but the facts are the facts. the law of percentages certainly favor you better to date in college than after college. i'll take my odds when 95% of the girls in my location are my age as opposed to living in an area where a whopping 15% of the girls i come across are my age or within a 5 year span of my age.

[ras144]

"College Dating is Not a good idea!"
Then when the hell are you suppose to start dating? By age 25, people expect for you to have experience.

[cipher42]

I have a lot of objections to this idea. Firstly, it isn't even true that hookup culture is that huge in college. It's entirely possible to have a stable and long lasting romantic relationship in college. But even if were like you seem to think, why is that such a bad thing? Even if a relationship isn't serious, it can still be fun. There's nothing wrong with casual relationships. Furthermore, it's a learning experience. Even if a relationship doesn't go well, you probably still learned something from it, and that's valuable.

And lastly, I don't think either my heart nor my pussy need guarding. Again, college relationships can in fact be serious, but even if they aren't there is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex outside of a relationship. Nothing. The idea that women (and it is female specific for the most part) lose some kind of value by not being perfectly chaste is antiquated and idiotic, and I strongly object to any of that kind of thinking.

[Rockstar06]

So good!!! Can't agree with you more

[Azara]

#disagree.

college is about learning. learning in all aspects. relationally you learn about yourself, lean how to get close, learn how to get hurt and learn how to move on without it destroying you... if you never have to deal with that you'll never be able to.

anyhow physical and emotional intimacy is important for a lot of people. for people who dont like faking around they shouldn't have to be without anything.. its unnecessary stress. you're surrounded by peers. its a waste to ignore compatibility seemingly our otherwise., things dont have o be perfect to be worthwhile. lifes messy.

[Prettygurl12]

Most people meet their spouse in college so...

[KENKONG]

this is true.

[vishna]

Hmmm, I have to disagree. Not everyone, or even most people, are only out for sex flings. And an even smaller amount of people who want flings are actually fake enough to fake feelings and put on a rouse. In fact, a lot of people meet their future spouse in college. In title 9 training, we learned that the hook up culture is actually a lot smaller than thought.

[kovalinkie19]

I'm sorry someone hurt you. It's not just college and university people that want to fool around, it's not limited to 3-4 years.

[mishiii]

College is not the place to meet a guy. Study get laid but do not get yourself emotionally involved. It will hurt you calculus great

[DarkHumorRUs]

High school was for fooling around. Where the fuck else would you meet people after college?

[serp777]

Oh no! People looking for sex? HOW HEINOUS. THOSE WOLVES ARE BASICALLY MURDERS.

[Cjanes]

Personally I found college the best place to meet and date people. I would recommend you go out enjoy yourself and meet people because after you are done college your social pool is much smaller. Don't let paranoia hold you back :)

[rjroy3]

Yet college is a common time for some lifelong friendships and marriages lol.

[Octavius]

Like someone else said I think you're making the hook up culture seem bigger than it actually is. I see a lot of couples on campus that are in fact serious couples.

[DabieberRoyalty]

I've seen couples who act serious outside and do shit behind closed doors. That's because you see people holding hands and acting cute you can't really say their serious or what the intentions of the relationship. Hence I also stated that there are good people in college.

[front2back]

Dating when you aren't a normal adult doing normal adult stuff seems to always be a bad idea.

[KENKONG]

And yet another girl who gave that booty up to Chad Thundercock

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[Lilac79]

I think most girls would

[DabieberRoyalty]

@Lilac79 yup. rather him than the skinned version of King Kong over here.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Dating and banging are never easier than in college lol

Also, there are plenty of people who have great relationships and meet their spouse from college.

[RedThread]

I think this can be said outside of college too. There are always going to be some people who want you just for a casual sex experience. Just gotta be upfront about wanting more than that.

[Entity]

College dating is a GREAT idea. College students tend to do better, not worse, when partnered up.

[John_Doesnt]

I know it's a bad idea for long term relationships, but I need to practice getting comfortable talking to women and getting dates. And I think college is just the place for learning experiences like that.

[art84]

Never dated anyone in college. I don't think it would of worked out cause of classes and other things getting in the way.

[BruceJender]

Oh sod off.

Loads of people find their lifelong partners at college/University.