You don't convince someone to do that. If she is not interested, you leave it be and keep that fantasy to yourself. Trying to coerce someone into sexual acts they are not comfortable with is just plain wrong. The fact that you don't know that shows you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
I feel bad for your girlfriend. You clearly are asking for a guide, which means you want to convince/coerce her into something she isn't comfortable with. You know that is true so don't bother trying to tell me otherwise.
If it wasn't true, you wouldn't be asking how to get her to sleep around with other people, would you? You'd be doing it because it is something that she wants to do.
That just isn't the case, and you want help trying to fulfill your fantasy. Have you given any thought at all to her feelings or don't you care about that? Why do you need you or her to sleep around anyhow? Is she not good enough for you that you need other people to have sex with?
Stop ranting and throwing judgements and get a life. If she doesn't agree to this of course I am gonna drop the idea
Then why do you need a guide to convince her? You simply ask her and take her yes or no and be done. Awfully triggered by someone calling you out.
I did some swinging with a boyfriend in college and also did threesomes and the the "hotwifing" thing. I can't tell you how to convince anyone to do any of it because I was the one talked into it. It just depends on if the person is open to stuff like that. My boyfriend was into it and he would bring it up and I'd shoot it down and then we'd watch porn with threesomes and foursomes. Eventually I agreed to do a threesome and then we went on from there. Deep down I'm a very sexual person and I'm also adventurous so that's why I was more willing to give it all a try. It would really depend on what type of personality she has.
You can introduce her to the idea and maybe she'll be interested, but it's not something to convince her to do. It may take some time for her to accept the idea and give it a try, so be patient.
It’s going to be funny for you guy when she drops you for one of the guys she hooks 🪝 up with. I am sure you will enjoy tgeir joint Christmas card delivery to your home
Lol. Not happening
Alright… STDs
That happens way more often than swingers like to think about.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If my boyfriend so much as mentioned interest in the swinger lifestyle, he’d become single at that moment.
That’s something you talk about BEFORE the relationship starts.
You would expect a guy to ask you if you are into swinging before he's been with you for a while? That's something that requires getting to know someone pretty well before you ask about it.
You absolutely do not wait to bring it up. That’s literally manipulation. Well, attempted manipulation since no woman is retarded enough to magically become a swinger when when finds out her boyfriend wants to fuck other women with permission… This counts as lying. You are a liar for convincing her to be in a relationship without being honest about your intentions. I hope the first chick you try to fuck has a penis.
You have serious anger issues.
I don’t think you can convince someone to do that. It’s something that you’re either into or you’re not.
We got invited to a swinging party, clothing was optional although all the men were nude. We watched for a little while but neither of us was interested in participating.
She would probably have to be already open to it for her to participate. I am guessing (because everyone is different) but if she is not open to it she probably cannot be convinced.
i have always enjoyed it myself 🤷♀️
This. Right here. Well said!
She either is or isn’t the right match for you. Convincing ain’t likely to happen.
Uh you don't. If she's not into it, drop it.
I you have to convince your partner to do it... then you shouldn't do it.
I like this idea as well
And your partner?
He doesn't
In the same boat.
that would lead to open relationship.
I understand this.
so you want to damaging yourself?
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