Could there be something wrong with me?

I have sex with this guy and we can never get started without it hurting in the beginning. He has sex with other girls I guess because when he sticks his penis inside my whole he has to slowly go in before he can fully go in. He says my hole is weird.

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  • Most women experience this. The muscle of your vagina are keeping your vagina small because it’s the way your body is. The vaginal muscles relax during sexual activity and as you become accustom to him they will losses up. The same happens to just about every woman especially the first time they have sex with a guy. You’ll also notice that your cervix will move to a position that is more comfortable.

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  • It sounds like you just aren’t turned on my husband just try’s to shove it in sometimes and it really hurts it also makes me more anxious about it so it feels worse the next time. You need to spend more time kissing and touching each other first so you can relax and be ready for it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It seems like he is the problem for rushing into it. Have you had the problem with other guys? I would also say it's a red flag if a guy tries to blame you.

    • Thank you for the MHO. 😊

  • Sounds like your rushing straight to sex. Tell him he has to get you warmed up with foreplay.
    Failing that you might need to use a bit of lube.

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  • seen your Dr. lately? No idea. maybe you are stressed or pmsing...

    • p. s. sounds like a bad idea...

  • It’s possible he thinks you are a man.

  • Use foreplay.

  • Are u making sure to do forplay before hand so that you are wet

  • Is he first getting you fully aroused and good and wet before he tries entering your vagina?

    • not really

    • Then that's most likely the problem. I would get you ready by paying attention to your breasts, neck & throat, deep kisses and then giving you oral until you have multiple orgasms, that way you should be relaxed and soaking wet down there making for an easy slide in penetration.

    • I'm very sure there is nothing weird about your hole. Feel free to dm me if you want.

  • You may have Vaginismus. It's treatable but you should have your V looked at to be sure.

  • It sounds like the problem is probably him not getting you ready and being in tune to what you need.

  • Perhaps you are too tight.

  • Your hole may too tight, so penis hurt you

  • Get lube on both you and him. Are these your first few times? Perhaps your hymen isn't done adjusting