Could this be one of the reasons why men cheat?

So I think one of the reasons why men cheat is because of lack of sexual excitement.

I just feel like when a woman is in touch with her femininity and sensuality it makes the man more excited and happy. It makes him feel more secured, confident and sexually adequate to the point where his partner is the only one in his mind.

But when the woman is operating in her masculine energy, lacks sensuality and refuses to sexually explore and please her man the man gets distracted by other women who exude the qualities that he would like to see in his partner.

So when the woman continues to behave like that the man loses self control and gets distracted by other women and gives in.

Before some of you come for my neck I'm not saying that it's okay to cheat, but if someone cheats there's always a reason, and personally I think this might be one of the reasons.
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Maybe I should've made this question referring it to both genders. Because men lacking sexual excitement operating in their feminine energy and things like that could be one of the reasons women cheat as well. But as I said this doesn't mean that cheating is ok.
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In addition, these are just random thoughts I get, I don't fully believe this and this is why I shared this with you guys so I can get your point of view. Please do not take offense in this. He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes ; he who does not ask a question remains a fool forever. -Chinese proverb.
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  • People cheat because they're scumbags.

  • The caveman pert of the brane in men is a hunter. That is very basic to their personality.

  • I am certainly in touch with both my femininity and my sexuality.

  • The reason is because the man lacks the maturity to saty with one person. That's the only reason.

  • Not really. Most men who cheat are the Chads who will cheat no matter what (the top 5% to 10% of men).

  • There is no good excuse to cheat.
    The blame fully lies with the person who decides to cheat.
    Cheating is a decision not a reaction.

    • True but please understand that I wasn't trying to excuse cheating with this...

    • @Sweetener_ I understood that you were not excusing cheating.

  • Yes it is one of the reasons

  • Yes I believe this goes both ways though and is a factor in why some women cheat too

  • Yeah

  • Men, have a need to lead... not follow... it's nature

  • There are two other words I can think of yet it us almost exact same thing, swxual fantasy? Something we want in bedroom badly. To hesitant of asking our partner or we have asked and rejected ridiculed.

    • Thanks for like!

    • It is almost* sexual fantasies* too hesitant* rejected/ridiculed*

    • Hey, why do you always thank me for a like?

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  • It's part of it but I think there's more to it than that. Another part is when they don't feel appreciated for what they do for their partner so lack of sex can come across as lack of appreciation.

    I think men and women both have the same propensity to cheat but one speculation I have as to why men cheat more is because the likelihood of a woman taking an interest to a guy increases when the guy is already taken. Men have more opportunities to cheat in my opinion.

  • Guys cheat because they get tired of begging.

    • I won’t beg, period, refuse and I’ll go get it elsewhere.

    • @rcljr Begging is for dogs.

    • Exactly