Could you be with or have sex with a girl if she’s been with a black guy before you?

I never knew this was an issue but I’ve seen a few guys mention it so I was curious to see what other men thought
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  • I don’t really want to hear about any of my girlfriends past sex partners... I mean, I’ve never thought about race... I guess I’d hook up with a black person so I don’t know why I’d be concerned about them hooking up with a black guy... Do you mean because black guys are supposed to be big so you worry about satisfying them or are you saying that black people are gross or something? Without taking a stance on racial issues... I grew up in and around a big city so I’ve always been around, and comfortable with all races. Some people prefer certain races as lovers though... That’s their thing... I don’t really feel that’s always driven by being racist... some guys only like blondes... some girls only like built tall guys... just a physical feature to me. But going back to the question... No, I would not care...

Most Helpful Guy

  • Dude, you've never pissed at a urinal around black guys, or been in a male locker room (Wait you're a girl, nevermind.) I've seen some black dicks before (no homo) as a guy who went to military boot camp, and just being a dude in general who pisses in public bathrooms, I have the privilege of seeing a lot of dicks that most females don't get to see unless they sleep around a lot. I've seen some black dicks. They aren't on average longer, or shorter than white or brown people. Dick size has more to do with genetics, not skin color, or region. So if Asians have tiny dicks, then that would mean everyone in Asia white, brown, pale, yellow, or black has on average smaller dicks. That is a regional genetic/environmental thing. Not a skin color thing. Skin color has nothing to do with dick size. But if you are circumcised, you usually have a smaller dick on average. But that does not mean all uncircumcised fellows are huge.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've only ever had sex once in my life years ago and the guy was white.

    But you'd be surprised how many guys tell their friends they wouldn't dare approach me because they assume my sexual experiences because I'm a black woman. I honestly don't think it should matter. Not all black guys are big and not all white guys are small. The whole issue is stupid. If someone is clearly attracted to you, that should be enough.

  • My first partner was black. And the rest of my partners after him were white and Asian. Don't think some men give a damn lol

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  • I don't see what the color of a person's skin has to do with anything.
    Every girlfriend I ever had had been with other guys before. So what? They liked me and that's all that mattered.

  • Don’t tell him and he should ask. None of his business. Doesn’t matter.

    • *shouldn’t

  • Does not matter.

  • My present partner is 100% european, and her previous 2 partners were black. I am not. So far, no problems at all! They say "when you go black, you don't go back", well.. its not true, haha. Its been 10 years and happily counting!

    • yay!

  • If I like her and she is beautiful with in why not

  • I don't see what the big deal is, personally.

  • I don't mind it.. but..

    1 - Many guys don't want to know that a girl's been with anyone in general.

    2 - Genetically, it seems that black man got the Divine's blessing in the size dept. And many males are insecure about their size in general. Add both phenomena together and you have the right circumstance for many males to drop out of the gang bang conga line.

  • Yes, I could be with and have sex with a woman who has been with a black man.
    I really don't care where she has been or what she has done sexually.
    I care about how she will be with me and going forward.

  • never once did this bother me

  • Of course. How would I even know that?

  • I've had some black gfs, so obviously I have. It's not something I inquire about.

  • Why is there never wpuld you be with a girl ig she was with a white/Asian/Indian etc before you. Always an issue about black guys.🙄

    • Because it's about dick size insecurity, which they pretend is racism because it's less embarrassing to be racist then ashamed of your dick.

    • @0112358 It's pathetic either way. This myth about donkey-sclong Mandigo lover needs to end. Plenty of black men are have small penises.

  • Yeah. if she wants me she wants me, if she doesn't she doesn't. I will judge her based on how she reacts to me not what I would guess her reactions would be.

  • Lmao, seriously that's such a racist question. I don't think that someone will ask you: Did you have sex with a black guy? I mean you don't have to mention his origin and if someone asks that, then just run. Because that person is probably a racist

    • I think she is asking because it is known that dark guys have bigger dicks than white guys

    • Well, but she asks for the guys. I don't think that the penis size a big deal for her. I already read 2 comments from white men, mentioning their hate for black men, because their girlfriend left them for one.

    • @mattissebfan5 Not all do and the biggest dicks on record were white men.

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  • Seriously why would you sleep with black

  • No. If she was nice and had good morals I would have no problem with it.

  • Makes no difference what his skin color is. More who he is.

  • Hmm... no... but I'm strange in the sense I prefer to know how big the dudes she's been with back in the past were. If I don't compare, I'm severely less inclined to be with her.

    • Okay. Let's say the girl was with someone bigger than you. Would that make you not date her?

    • As I said... severely less inclined to date her if they're much bigger. But if me and the girl have incredible chemistry I might look past it.

  • Yeh guys of any other race don't want to date a girl who has been with a black men..

    Don't ask guys the reason.. Because it will be counted as racism.

  • yea, obviously "once you go black you'll never go back" must be total bullshit if you're no longer with that black guy and decide to switch up rase.

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