She could be so damn sexy and make me feel lost for words. But I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I need love and a connection. Not someone that doesn’t care if I’m dead or alive. I have no respect for those people personally whether you’re a man or a woman. But that’s just me, the only normal person here really.
No, I could not just randomly have sex with someone, no matter how attractive I found them. I have to have an emotional connection to the person to even want to be intimate. That isn’t going to happen with a random guy. That is just me personally though.
I am not into booking up or one night stands. Never have been. It takes a while before I consider intimacy with someone. I have to believe there is at least a good possibility of a long term relationship.
There are also other concerns I would have. Are they free of STDs and any other diseases that they could transmit?
Before I am intimate with anyone (yes, in a relationship) I get a sexual health checkup and so does he or no sex.
So, doesn’t matter level of “hotness” or whatever. Not going to happen with me unless we have been together and I have established that emotional part of a relationship.
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Absolutely I can have sex without any connection to that person. It's how I spent the three years or so after my separation & divorce from my now ex-husband. He was my first boyfriend & the only man I had ever had sex with & once we were separated & I got over it I went to explore my sexual being. I wouldn't take back my experiences either, I don't regret any of it.
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I would be turned on by the random person, but would need a connection. If there was good chemistry then I’d hop into bed, but I agree wit you, I’d need some kind of connection
0 0 0 0I could go about halfway to see if there is really anything to it either physicality or emotionally
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6 4No, I wouldn't. I think it's a shallow reason to have sex with someone and I'm also protecting my health.
1 3 0 0Depends on the mental state that I am in at that moment.
0 0 0 0Yes but he would have to wear a condom
0 0 0 0I sure could, without a doubt
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Whatever works for you man.
No that simply won't do.
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It would have to be a woman, but sure.
0 0 0 0nope
0 0 0 0I have and it's fun but it doesn't last long which is ok sometimes.
0 0 0 0Absolutely.. she just needs to be above average and I'm in.
0 0 0 0No, not as a Born-Again Christian.
As for my unsaved younger days, that's a different story
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