Coworker (38m) talking to me (25f) about a sex documentary he watched?

He was talking to me about a sex documentary he watched with his wife about weird fetishes. He was asking me what I’d do if my boyfriend/husband (I’m single and he knows this) confessed a weird fetish to me and then said he was curious was weird things I’ve been asked to do.

Why would he talk to me about this?

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  • Because he watched the vidoe and his wife is not into it... so here you are, and I would guess he is trying to feel you out. Like would you be into swinging or something else. It's weird and it is a creepy conversation to just have with a woman. Unless you are into it, which in that case I would say indulge yourself.

    But you are not into it, then just stay way from this guy... sounds like trouble brewing.

    • He said that his wife asked him if he was into it and he said no and that he felt vanilla, so it sounds like it was the other way around

    • Nah... I was married for 22 years... its sounds like a set up question from his wife, and he was not going to do it. For example, say that it was about threesomes... if your wife has never ever showed any interest in threesomes, but you watch a video and she asks is that what you would want, as the man, you say hell no. I would not want that. But if his wife was really into it then she would suggest different things... either way I would assume whatever his thing is, she is not into it. He probably only watched it with her to be suggestive about experimentation... but he didn't get what he was looking for from his wife. So now he is either asking you about it, just to see if woman in general into whatever are it is, or more specifically if you are. For example, maybe he wants to know if you are into threesomes, and maybe is scoping you out as possible 3rd person?

    • Well it was about pegging?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • That is wildly inappropriate. Tell him that you don't want to have that conversation with him. Where are you working?

Most Helpful Girls

  • He is interested sexually. He’s trying to engage you in this sexual conversation to see how open you are with it. If you’re comfortable talking about sex to him, you might be comfortable having sex with him. At least he’s hoping so. I’d stay away from the subject altogether if you’re not interested in him.

  • Why do you need to put your ages and sex in parentheses?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • This is inappropriate and likely not allowed in your employee handbook.

  • Because he is not a tactful person.

  • Simply put.




    Unprofessional & inappropriate

  • He is a creep. Stay far away.

  • He want to fuck you.

  • because he's fantasizing about fucking you.

  • Probably has a crush on you and is comfortable talking to you