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Crying while watching porn. Any advices?

I am a girl who dates another girl, in a long distance relationship. I recently told her I missed having sex and she replied "poor you", so we had an argument because I thought the answer was weird and I felt really embarrassed. I know she hasn't been feeling very well lately, but I miss feeling wanted. This week we had another argument because she goes like 9 hours without answering me sometimes, and she threw it in my face the times I hurt her, but I was trying to talk. Today I tried to watch porn and started crying in the middle. Any advices?
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  • I don’t think crying while watching porn is the biggest issue here, I think it’s the relationship. It doesn’t sound healthy and it sounds like it needs some serious work on communication and effort.
    Try and talk to her and ask her why she’s being so distant (taking hours to reply) and cold (saying “poor you” as a response to your feelings.)

    • She has depression, and so do I. but she never acted like that before. She says she just doesn't feel well and doesn't feel like talking, but she goes out with her friends to talk. I don't mind her hanging out with her friends or anything but I'm like "Do you want to talk to them and not me?" inside. I want to support her but I want to feel support too. She says it's nothing with me and all, but I'm insecure with this abrupt change in behavior. And when i try to talk about how i feel about this she feel attacked.

    • I understand that, and that’s why I think it’s a much bigger issue than the one you presented in the title. I still don’t think she was treating you nicely regardless if she has depression, doesn’t feel well, and doesn’t want to talk. Plus, if she’s hanging out with her friends, she has the time to talk to you. I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel. I hate to see relationships fail because of a lack of effort and communication actually fix the issues… But it’s leading to that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It sounds like the girl you're with is kind of a cold bit**. You're trying to open up and share your feelings and she's mocking you. Women usually do this to men, but I've never known it happened in f/f relationships too.

  • Basically i can sense a little bit of pitty seeking from u. U look for someone else to love u and make u feel good without realizing this behaviour makes other peole feel drained and makes avoid u. Im sorry

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don't be in a LDR

  • It’s You’re relationship that’s the issue here. Long distance is tough.

  • Don't think of a long-distance relationship as a real relationship.

  • Go to a sex therapist learn to date straight girls

    • Can you please message me? Can we talk?

  • Break up with her because she's being an ass

  • Theraphy

  • Stop asking dumb questions that my stupid ass answers anyway!

  • You seriously shouldn't be so upset about things

  • find a guy

  • Sounds like you’re growing apart. Might be better to find someone willing to actually be with you.

  • Now you can see what guys go through with drama queens. She isn't a nice girl. That's the problem why you are crying, she's being mean to you.

  • 9 hours without answering sounds a lot like sleep to me lmfao

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