Curious what boyfriends do when alone?

My boyfriend of 2 year now seems to watch a lot of porn when I’m not around I’m not sure if he masturbates to it or what but I always see it pop up. So I’m wondering if this is normally what guys do or is it something to be concerned about.
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I was find it on Reddit looking at girls pages or porn pages like am I dumb I don’t understand
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  • Generally, us guys wank off if sex is off the table for too long.

    But if he never or rarely initiates sex, then I think he's addicted to porn and masturbation.

    Its some kind of red flag if you want a long term relationship.

    Personally, I may wank off if I'm outstation and no able to have sex. But if she's available, I'd initiates, or wait for her. Either way, I try to avoid self care.

    I suggest you talk with him. Don't disapprove him, but tell him you really like him to initiate sex more often. Then establish some fun way for him to initiate.

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  • Trust me, if he's watching porn that much than he is jerking off to it. But I'm sure he's doing other things as well, because porn normally doesn't hold a guys attention for long.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Girlfriends and boyfriends do that when they're alone and bored. Anyone who says different is lying.

  • exactly what you think we are doing, hand me that tissue actually., kidding i have one thanks

  • He is wanking. Perfectly normal

  • I usually do work around the house, or honour one of my many hobbies. Or whack it.

  • You got some work to do 😂😂😂

    • LFMAOOO

    • What do you mean? Cause I’m always the one who makes the first move to have sex. Like ALWAYS

    • He rather work himself than you work him. You got no flavor or style.

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  • He may just be preparing for you before you get back?

  • I don't, but almost never watch it when my girlfriend is around. If I do watch it with my girlfriend, we do it together

  • Guys are not like girls, guys are stimulated visually, so Hell yes he is jerking off and cumming. Real Sex is better, but PORN will do

  • He is deff playing with himself lol

  • he sounds normal

  • Yes we have a visual fantasy and we like looking at the female body.

  • if he does this 3-5 time a week I think it's normal, more than that he needs help

  • You can ask him I guess.

    • I ask but he always says he doesn’t jack off but I mean I’m not dumb it’s an everyday thing at this point