Cut off the FWB?

I've been friends with benefits with this guy for about 3 months, and so far it's been completely positive. We have awesome sexual chemistry and both really benefit from a little release every once in a while. the issue is, we have such good chemistry, I can feel myself developing feelings for him. I feel like he's feeling the same way, since as time goes on I get more texts from him, we talk more when we're together, he calls me baby and tells me he misses me. I'm aware this could totally bs on his part, just being the guy telling a girl what he thinks she wants to hear or whatever; but if he is genuine, and I'm starting to like him more and more, should I end it now while we're both ahead? How hard would it be to just get over him, but still keep the amazing sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think you should quit it while you're ahead. You started this thing as a FWB and both knew where you stood. You developing feelings for him might throw everything off track and ruin your FWB relationship.

    I say either tell him how you feel and end the sexual friendship. Or just continue as long as you can and then end it when you know you can't handle just being his sex partner anymore. Taking the second route will only end up with you more hurt.

    Or ask him if he wants a real relationship with you and if he says no tell him to either stop all the things he's doing or the sexual relationship will have to end.

    Because obviously what he is doing is making you fall for him. Which is natural.

    Good Luck!

  • definitely talk to him about it.. be like "hey I don't know what you are thinking about me but I have a thing for you and if I need to end it I will but I want to know what you want... "

Most Helpful Guy

  • why would you end it? if anything, end it temporarily and come clean with your feelings for him. I mean, I DOUBT that he's BSing you with his nice comments because first of all, he already gets the benefits from you without having to say or do boyfriend kinds of things..that's the point of being FWB. secondly, calling more frequently and all that would be a lot of effort that I don't think any FWB guy would care to make just to BS some friend he gets ass from...i think he genuinely feels the chemistry and you guys should explore that further by maybe talking about it...

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