Dating A Bisexual Individual Doesn't Mean They'll Cheat On You

Like seriously, sexual orientation has NOTHING to do with loyalty. I'm bisexual, and sure I joke with my female friends about dating them but my boyfriend knows I only have eyes for him. I read this mytake titled "How being bisexual almost ruined my marriage and my life." and I got PISSED.

Between loyalty and sexual orientation, there is NO correlation whatsoever.

Dating A Bisexual Individual Doesn't Mean They'll Cheat On You

Personally, I was very pissed off because she made it seem as if being bisexual is such a terrible thing. But that's not what being bisexual means. It doesn't mean women will always crave vagina and penis, it doesn't mean they're never loyal etc. That woman, was just a cheater. The only reason she even almost got her marriage ruined was because her husband found out about a tape her and her mistress made together.

She wrote well, but what she wrote? Complete idiocy. A sexual orientation will not affect how loyal someone is. A cheater is a cheater. A bisexual is a bisexual. Just because she cheated with a mistress doesn't mean it's bad cause she's bi, it means she's a fucking cheater. If it was with a male it would have been the same damn scenario.

If you date a bisexual person it does not mean they'll fuck you over. If they like you, they'll be loyal to you. If they don't, then they won't. People cheat who're straight, and people are loyal who're bi (such as me for example). If you ever blame cheating on your SO on your sexual orientation, then there's clearly something wrong with you. If you blame being cheated on on your partners orientation then you clearly have no idea how sexual orientations work.

As @Blonde401 said in a comment "It's not like 'oh I fancy a woman today or oh I fancy sex with a man today'. It's not a switch we flip on and off. If we're with someone, we choose to be with them because of who they are not because of what genitals they have." It's so very true. Bisexuals are with the person they're with out of love, not for whats in their pants.

If you cheat, regardless of orientation, you're a cheater. Cheating does not affect one orientation, and cheating is not something to be blamed on anything but yourself. Don't blame anything or anyone but yourself, and accept the fact that you done fucked up.

Dating A Bisexual Individual Doesn't Mean They'll Cheat On You

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  • it's stupid. but as stupid as sorting who can make opinions in life, or thinking people have to love you off the bat/no matter what.

    • whats stupid?

    • people like you, you have a princiess complex and think yo're cute/pretty and the world loves you.