She will measure you up to other guys after she moves on from you
Think of your image as a cock, and your girlfriend is someone who constantly has a tape measure out making sure it stays above 8 inches long.
When you act vulnerable and overly genuine, you create an opportunity to get soft. She'll think you're pathetic and then laugh at you with her friends.
STAY HARD. Too many guys are betas because they have spiritual erectile disfunction.
:You're quoting a megalomanic, Adolf Hitler? Someone who committed suicide?
Life is not always a struggle. We are not always engaged in a fight.
There is nothing wrong with a man expressing feelings. This doesn't make him "soft." This makes him HUMAN. From my father to every other man I loved and respected, grown men express feelings. Sometimes it's through doing for others, sometimes it through hugs and kisses.
If you or any other man thinks this is "soft" I'm sorry for you. I don't want someone who thinks a woman is measuring his "cock" all the time. Jesus Christ.
I measure the tenor of a man through how he treats his family and friends. If he's generous and loving, that is the bottom line. That's the kind of man OR woman I want to know and have as a friend or lover/partner.
You might have to be "hard" in situations where you re dealing with a rock-headed idiot, but in general, this isn't true. Man, woman or dog.
Avoid said types. They leave you with headaches and sometimes, like Hitler and Stalin, millions of dead bodies of people they considered themselves superior to.
Millions more should be dead
So that millions can come to life
So you support what hitler did. Very creepy.
I have no idea what this means but it seems to be putting woman in one box , when all woman are different. You cannot tell me I'm the same as your ex.
All women share a common denominator: vulnerability, need for security, and a desire for only the best of the best
Not all woman for gods sake.
I somewhat agree with this. From my experience, any time I show my weakness with my partner, they tend to leave me. Maybe it was never real love to begin with, butnit felt real and genuine during.
If a girl can't handle your insecurities and your baggage (everyone comes with baggage whether girls like it or not), then they're not a real partner or someone that you can rely on.
Thats not true. Girls were never meant to be your mothers
Theyre sexual partners. Stay hard
That sucks that you couldn't show weakness, I heard about that going wrong when guys do it. Hopefully you find a girl who sees it as you trusting her.
Living isn't always about fighting. Nor is fighting always the measure. Adolph had an oversimplified view of the matter.
A man who is too hard, is like a broomstick. Only a crazy woman sticks that inside. And I've met enough crazies already.
Broader reputation as a strong person is more important than having a girl like you 24/7
That's a more agreeable statement. And being liked isn't enough. It has to be feasible. I really liked a gal in China a lot who liked me back a little. But then there's dealing with interference from the raging mammoth in the room that is the ChiComms, and neither of us were up for that. Then there's the gal from California. Won't leave her cat or her man. Having a solid view of life is meaningless to romance potential if she's flat out unavailable. Better to get work done than worry about a woman then. Until I meet an available one who isn't a zombie, and who isn't ripe for Better Bachelor on YouTube to mock. When I voice agreement with most (but not everything) Celeste Solum says, and the gals run away , it shows they're zombies who want to stay in the Matrix. If I can't do better than a Matrix zombie, I'm better off alone.
True, you have self respect not self pity
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!First of all you need more confidence dude first of all I don't know if you're pissed off because this is happened to you before or if you're pissed off because you wanted to happen why don't you just put on the brakes and think about how to make it not happen and work from the positive side instead of the negative side if you live in a negative world then what else would you expect I really can't imagine a girl being with you for more than a day especially if you're this negative towards everything instead of giving girls reason to dislike you why don't you give them a reason to like you that would be a much better world to live in and instead of being a pissed-off human being when you break up why don't you be her friend and apologized and it didn't work out and remain friends instead of becoming a jerk and making her make you look bad because you won't allow her to live in peace you need to create a different world to live in besides negative I think you'd be much happier
Being genuine isn't a show of being soft. It takes balls to be genuine and if anything, woman are attracted to a man who can confidently express how they really feel about things.
Maybe you're right in the sense that you don't want to be expressing a ton of negativity, that's for sure a turn off.
But yea, I've never heard of girls laughing at a guy for being too genuine. And I would argue that most women who are going after guys who aren't genuine, are manipulative.
Which I guess you got coming to you because you're kinda being manipulative if you're not going to be honest.
When you have no standards, or you're overly desperate for attention from woman, these become foreign concepts
I don't get turned off if a guy cries or shows weakness. I'm kind of a nurturing person myself even though I can be unemotional at times. I myself, am pretty emotional (internally), so a guy opening up like that, means that he trusts me, and I appreciate that. I can be there for him during his tough times. Anyone who laughs at that is a psycho.
What the hell is this? You admire Hitler? Fuck off.
I needed an image to post the Take
And you chose THAT? You couldn't have found something else, on the entire internet?
After reading his responses on my opinion I'm pretty sure he's just a troll to be honest.
Vulnerability is sexy stfu
Where do you believe lies get you? To heaven?
No lies here. Nor religion. So again stfu.
Heaven can be on earth, but liars stop that from happening. you're toxic
"When you act vulnerable and overly genuine, ..."
Wrong. Maybe if you are trying to date an equally shallow woman. I ruined a great relationship because I was too closed and she felt that she didn't really know me. When I met my wife I was more open and we're very happy together.
I'm sorry, but this is so stupid on so many levels... If this is what most women you date are like, I'd suggest finding a real woman...
Women can't afford to stay saddled with a chump
I honestly don't mind at all if he shows 'vulnerability' I'm gald he shows it to me
Let me guess you also dont mind if he's fat as long as he has a generous personality
As long as my hands can meet one another when hugging him, I'm good
Ok np. you're Beta bux oriented.
Ridiculous statement even more ridiculous example
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