Girls, deep down inside are you only looking hot guy who's tall and muscular to be with?

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Are those the type of guys you want to marry or be with in a long term relationship or are they guys you just want to fuck and not take seriously. I want girls to be honest with this question.

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nerdybutlazy Xper 7
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The average woman actually prefers muscular men for hookups and ends up dating guys less muscular I mean my boyfriend is tall but he's not muscular and he's hot to me of course I don't know about other people
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- Asker
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  soo is this the case for many girls?
- nerdybutlazy
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  Yah, nowadays the downside for muscular men is yah they'll get laid more by random women but the odds are most women will think their fuckbois and not want to date them... most muscular men I've met also didn't have much personality so that was also a problem
- Asker
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  Ya im in a predicament of a situation with a girl, I've known her for 2 years, met off tinder... I think she considers me to be a handsome guy, but i dont post pictures of myself with my shirt off n shit because i dont want to be perceived as a fuck boy. Anyhow, we do regularly but by text msgs. I don't hit on her, i dont like her photos, i don't act sappy by saying she's so beautiful... I try to be real and talk to her normally or make her laugh. Thing is she doesn't follow me back on IG and the guys she follows back are muscular guys. Not that I'm not in shape I am in shape, I just don't post pics like that. She never said no she won't meet up and she said I've been hurt by guys in the past. But she does ask how i'm doing, she considers me a harmless, sweet guy and has complimented my cooking. But i don't know with girls it can be confusing.
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- nerdybutlazy
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  I think you'd just have to tell her how you feel, just cause most women don't usually date super jacked men doesn't mean they don't like to look at them, it's the same with guys ig models, you know you can't have them but you look anyway. Also, no offence but reading about your problem from the reply and the title of this question it sounds like maybe you have some insecurities that you may want to work out first, becuase if one woman made you feel this about I don't think you should talk to her about your possible relationship yet... especially if you haven't told her how you feel
- Asker
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  Listen i think we all have insecurities, i know that if i get into really good shape yea ill get more looks from girls to but the difference is im not going to flaunt it on social media. I did tell her I liked her and I wanted to take her out but she said listen I'm not ready because I've been hurt in the past pretty bad. I mean what am I supposed to say to her? F-You? It's not just her, soo many girls I know gawk over guys like that. My thing is, if I am a decent looking, who is caring, has other good traits, not a fuck boy and remains focused on building my life. Will these girls be interested in me one day for a relationship? That's my main point. My goal in life is not to have sex with 20 different women.
- nerdybutlazy
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  Well, I'm sorry to tell you this but that not these other men's fault or the women, you can be a great guy just not the right guy and not's a bad thing... I know people hate hearing this but maybe you just need to find the right person, maybe try expanding your dating pool, maybe you just need a sweetheart, maybe try new clubs or go to new places and meet people, even if you have a dating app swipe on people you wouldn't usually swipe on. I didn't mean to poke at your insecurities but, I'll tell you what I tell my friends if you keep going after the same kind of people and you're still single, maybe that's not the kind of people you are meant to be with". there's also the whole they may just really not be ready to date this and besides its better, they tell you than them wasting your time. You'll find someone soon just calm down and maybe take time to yourself until you meet someone
- Asker
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  so what about that girl i mean is there any point? do you think she's being honest. I live in Canada we have Thanksgiving, she texts me "Happy Thanksgiving!" and I texted her back by saying "How can it be a Happy Thanksgiving if I couldn't whip up a good meal for you where you sit back and relax and try my cooking". Then she responds back with "lol do not worry about me, worry about your family, they come first".
- nerdybutlazy
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  I think she's being honest that doesn't sound flirty it just sounds like she wants you to be her close friend. Sorry man, if it makes you feel any better my boyfriend was in a similar situation with a girl about a year ago then he went on a trip and we met there, so it could be for the best
- Asker
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  but is that a bad thing for a guy to be a close friend to a girl? or do you mean im friend zoned? im just asking because I want to try and better understand a girl's mindset. Like I said she never said no to the idea of dating or meeting up, but then again she never said yes either.
- nerdybutlazy
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  If she didn't say yes, personally that's a no, it's not a bad thing to be a close friend but I think you did get friend-zoned dude and that's okay, there could also be a chance she isn't sure, maybe if you show her you're busy with your life without her then she'll see what she's missing out on
- Asker
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  i mean she talks to me and responds, she apologizes if she's late responding back... i mean i even noticed she's checked out my LinkedIn page. But all Im saying is this, girls need to be physically attracted to guys right? You can correct me if im wrong here but eventually looks wear out and its the personality that matters. I think she likes my personality because I can make her laugh *shrugs shoulders*. I get what you're saying though about keeping busy. I'm not in school right now, I will be in January for graduate studies and I do plan to start working next wk so hopefully things change in my life for the better. I hope my comments dont make it seem like im insecure, but being a fit guy will attract more girls you can't deny that.
- nerdybutlazy
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  Sure thing dude do whatever makes you happy
- Asker
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  i guess the whole being super fit thing you dont agree with?
- Asker
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  for the record i am honest with her, i tell her she looks beautiful and i hate when girls try to maintain this image of perfection for guys.
- Asker
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  sorry i dont mean to bother you with answers thats pretty much it.

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thegirlfromthething Guru
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Those are nice qualities in a long-term relationship but they’re not necessary. I would date or marry a guy with average looks, build, and height.
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- Asker
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  I always see girls following those big buff guys on IG, I just assume girls want to be with guys like that.
- thegirlfromthething
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  Of course they do. It doesn’t mean only guys like that can get girlfriends or wives though.

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msss98 Yoda
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I have one but physique isn't everything
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- Asker
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  you have one? what do u mean?
- msss98
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  My boyfriend is that
- Asker
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  But is that what sold you on him?