Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Am 28 years old married woman. I am a working woman as well as a homemaker. From past one month I have been leading a very busy life and after a long time, me and my husband were about to get intimate last night and he denied me sex saying that my pussy isn't shaved. Am like wth I last shaved it just two weeks back and it's not so hairy and it looks just well trimmed. I know he likes it shaved down there but I can't believe he said that because I usually maintain a good hygiene and wish he could have been bit more understanding considering how busy I was. Am really pissed off by his behavior.
My question is if a hairy private area for women such a big turnoff to an extent that sex should be denied because of it? Has any women experienced a similar situation like me?
Denied sex because I wasn't shaved down there. Why is a hairy vagina considered such a turn off nowadays?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 34Haaaa. We dont always accept sex as it comes.
It's not for me, I'm down for it
When I see a girl is shaved, it’s like she’s begging me to put my face down there.
I find the best sex is when the girl initiates it.
If it had been your idea, I’m sure you would have taken the time to make it right.
Marriage is a two way street. He should have not said that.
It isn't turn off, i dont why your husband did that
Well.. because it's disgusting in my opinion :D
Congrats you’re a lazy fat disgusting man now. Grow a beard while you’re at it.
What do you mean?
No, I don't care if the vagina is hairy or not. It's the woman's choice what to do with her body.
You seem to be really mature than your age. Thanks!!
Thanks
His body his choice, you dont gotta shave and he dont gotta bang you
I like hair down there. Doesn’t feel like I’m eating a LITTLE GIRL but a WOMAN?
Need a new man natural hairy pussy love it
I think it was a little over the top for a man to turn down his wife because she didn't shave once but she usually does. I don't blame you for being a little pissed off.
But, I do understand how he feels. Hair down there is a big turnoff to me. I find it unfeminine and off putting. Now I realize in the past women always had hair down there, so you're wondering why now men expect women to be shaven. Well, the answer is that they had no choice back then. The standards have been raised now. I think of it like brushing your teeth. Centuries ago people didn't have toothbrushes and toothpaste so undoubtedly people commonly had bad breath. But it was normal people didn't know any different. But they do today, and someone with bad breath is a big turnoff. Same goes for pubic hair on women.
If pubic hair on women natural? Sure, but so is oral bacteria.
*Is pubic hair on women natural
Actually, I prefer hairy. Kind of seems rather petty he'd deny you sex.
Ooh I have a friend like that. He doesn't like JAV, because he thinks the girls are sometimes too hairy. His gfs are usually younger girls. Maybe because hairless makes the girl look more neat and innocent?
Ya I can understand what you mean because I have seen comments of other guys on my post and they say that it disgusts them as well. What these idiots don't know is that its actually more unhygienic to be completely hairless there, but still I didn't mind to go smooth for my husband but after this stupid excuelse of him I lost a lot of respect for him.
Doesn't bother me at all. My girlfriend just trims hers and I never hesitate to have sex with her and give her oral.
After a long time? Why has it been a long time?
Busy lives, didn't really find time and either of us were too tired at the end of the day to get into the act. We were going to have sex almost after a month.
He's probably just learned to live without it. It happens. My ex would make all kinds of excuses, and when I learned to live without it and stopped trying to initiate, it became my fault.
WTH kind of man turns down his wife for anything as trivial as that? 🤦🏻♂️
I don’t blame you for being pissed off.
SMH
Yep that's what I don't understand. Because of this instance I lost some part of my respect for him. He should have accepted the way as I am.
I’m with you on that. You’re a grown woman; god forbid you look like one. And he could act like a grown man instead of child that doesn’t get his way.
Oh boo fucking hoo, you still have it easier than most guys
That's so rude and immature of you to have said that.
This post made me literally lol
What's so funny in this post, would you mind to explain?