DESPERATE FOR HELP?

Hello. I am new here to gag. I need some advice from knowledgeable people. I have a steady boyfriend for 2 years now. We have a good relationship, although we do have issues sometimes because of my jealousy and unnecessary insecurities. He is a good man and no horn dog. Loves and looks only at me. But it is me. Since Covid, we have had to social distance in my country. So we go online and look at the news and discuss many things as he reads to me about this on the online paper. I enjoy having him read to me and I read too to him. We enjoy bonding with it. My problem is, many things on there have pictures of girls in the entertainment world (Hollywood) and it bothers me that they show these things on the other side of this online paper. (Half naked, bikini's, etc like this stuff) He tells me to not pay any mind to them. Attention goers and he is not into that. But I am uptight over it,. Also whenever an article shows girls who are doing this too to like attract guys,(Submissions to this paper they print) I get all upset and mad inside and I feel irked. Sometimes it ruins all the fun we are having and I close myself out to him and we sometimes even fight. How can I over come it? No, please, I don't wanna forget the paper, I only need help in dealing with myself on this. I am getting worse, I think.
A): Ignore it, he loves you.
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B): You should get off the paper.
Vote B
C): Try and work through it as a couple.
Vote C
D): Another answer here.
Vote D
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It has nothing to do with the paper it has to do with you you need to walk every day clear your head make your blood flow new air in your system and either make a plane to meet him make live. Or make a plan to masturbate with each other but before you do anything work your body and get some fresh air in to it and your head

    • Um Covid?

    • We have Rings, Call each other spouses and are planning to be together forever, but no paper online invited then. hahaha

    • I agree but still get new air in ur blood it makes you thing clearer ur mind and body works better and it's ok to please each other to lol

  • He lives you, you're real and un hud life. To him they're just pictures

    • I think pics have gotten worse, I mean, why do girls feel the need to flaunt it? I am seeing it here being new on here.

    • The do it because it grabs attention

    • Boy, You are so right.

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  • You are overjealous, he didn't even met those girls, also you can send him pictures of you.

    • hahaha He has seen Me. Only eyes for me.

  • This is the type of insecurities that if you dont learn to deal with will destroy a relationship do you not trust him because if you do there is no issue here

    • This sounds reasonable + very wise. I do trust him but it bothers me how they just flaunt it out there to get attention from guys and viewers. It seems it is getting worse these days.

    • Its been bad for years but they shouldn't be your concern only him as it dont matter if they was completely naked or not its your man's choice to betray you or not what they do is irrelevant aslong as u trust him not to betray you thats all that matters

    • You are right of course. It just irks my liver to see how disgusting they get. Hoses.

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  • LDR's are a waste of time. And this level of narcissism and consequent jealousy will be your undoing in ANY relationship. I guarantee it.
    Use paragraphs and don't bold all your text. For gods sakes girl.

    • No wonder I will feel insecure even here. lol No LDR just covid time. He lives miles away. Thanks.

    • Well it is ALL ABOUT THE FEELZ, right? YOUR FEELZ.

    • Hahahaha I FEELZ.

  • Send him nudes..

    • Hahaha I have. He is not that sexual. More intellectual.

    • Send him a sodoku book..

    • Hahaha Only if it is a game he can play on his tablet.

  • I say ignore it and be more self confident. But you could also ask him to stop looking up articles that have half naked women in them.

    • Hahaha NO!!! The articles just SHOW UP T SHOW YOU CATEGORIES IT IS IN... Silly!!! HE HATES IT TOOO.

  • I stopped reading when I got to the phrase horn dog. Why do you have to be hating on us like that?

  • The main problem here is there isn't any problem.

    • Smart.

  • You are overthinking that! Stop trying to find fault and enjoy what you have.
    Don’t create a problem where there is none.
    Just be a woman!

    • Hahaha U sound like him now. Thanks.

  • Stop reading the paper if it bothers you that much, or have him remove all the pictures first.

  • Knowledgeable people lol for this on here yeh offcourse

  • A friend of mine had a jealousy problem so she tried counseling after the breakup and now she doesn't feel that way anymore. She learned why she felt that way (her past, her insecurities) and how to deal with them properly so as not to affect her future relationships.
    He must really love you to put up with that, I wouldn't. Can you imagine what it would be like if your boyfriend got jealous every time a shirtless man appeared on tv? lol

    • Thank u for replying, u are helpful. He loves me unconditionally, I know this much. I have never been like this before, not since i was a 13 yr old teen. lol I don't feel I need a doctor but just to to grow up, I think. hahaha. man or female, he doesn't think anything of topless morons. A strange penis that comes my way in my chat boxes on Fb are a turn off. hahaha

  • Complain to the paper.

    Failing that you could choose a book to read instead.

    • It has a section for entertainment so I doubt they will listen to me. hahaha