Did a guy cum inside you without checking with you first?

I had guy do that I met at a Halloween party. He was bare and did not pull out and then he just held me tight and pushed up into me hard and cum. I was mad and after he told me he does that to every girl and never had a problem with her not wanting that.
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  • This is the type of thing you make very clear before you have random sex.

    so you were okay with catching HIV, Syphilis etc.

    you are not happy with him cumming inside you though.

    Are you on the pill or did you take a morning after one?

    have you booked in for a sex health check up?

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  • You might not want to hear this, but if you didn't want him to cum inside of you, you should have either discussed it before hand or made him wear a condom. If you didn't tell him to pull out, how is he supposed to know that that is what you wanted? Unless you communicate your expectations, you can't expect your partner to be on the same page as you.

  • I always make it clear before we start if he can cum in me or if I want him to pull out. However, when I was in high school, this dude came in me after I told him not to. I got angry and he convinced me he just got carried away. So I gave him another chance and he cums in me again. Later I learned he was purposely trying to get me pregnant.

    • Why would he want to do that?

    • Immaturity. Part of it was racial too. He thought it was something to brag about to get a white girl pregnant.

    • Those sex must have been good for you to let him get it again

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  • That’s not cool. First I normally wear a condom, but if I don’t have one on, I will ask her first if I could fill her with my cum. I wouldn’t just cum inside her. I like to pull out a lot of times and explode on her ass or tits or face. If I am feeling freaky I pull out.. nut on her stomach then lick it off

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  • Yeah… I’ve had that happen to me multiple times, usually fine but just not the times I specifically asked them not to… :o/

    • Haven't u been worried about getting pregnant or stds?

    • @Junior42 well yes but it’s really hard in the moment to think about that… but yeah it’s always in the back of my mind…

    • Yeah because honestly that's the only thing I think about especially when they tell me to take the condom off I'm like no

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  • Not happened to me. For a random like that I would insist on condom anyway. What a creep/jerk. Warn others.

  • There should be mutual agreement and trust between both partners prior to any sex.

  • yikes... randoms. Were some of you ladies sleeping during Sex Ed? Even if you have BC thats not doing shit against STDs and a guy or girl willing to f around like that is a magnet for that stuff.

    • Exactly and the fact that he's cum in girls in the past like does this idiot not realize he could've gotten all of those girls pregnant like wtf bro

    • @Junior42 frankly i dont think guys like that care much. They have kids, they never take care of the kids, they figure they'll just pass the buck along to the next guy or have the girls emotionally dependent on him. I have no idea why these young girls are so messy with mate selection these days tbh. I mean its been like 13 or 14 years since I've been in HS. And people generally weren't this ummm stupid about who they slept with tbh. You had the hos ofc but I'm seeing this become more and more common. It's quite disgusting.

    • @t-8900 yea well I mean if they're random hookups and they'll never see them again then yeah I guess then they wouldn't care about getting em pregnant... Scary but yea its crazy or its jus that they are more open now ig I don't know but yea I was having sex with this girl she told me to take the condom off I like you're not worried about an STD she like no yea they be like oh i just go get tested but like bitch i still dont wanna get nothing i saw ome chick saw this tinder date gave gonorrhea but also said i sucked his dick like jus all casually its wild yea ig everyone hoes jus gotta ask apparently gotta try that more often lol

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  • Nope. I've never had that happen. I've also never fucked a guy or WANTED to.
    That guy sounds like a pig and I can't see why so many of you girls fall for this shit and open wide for just ANYBODY so often!!

  • Weren't u worried about stds? And he's an asshole for doin that he should have asked cuz thats a huge thing to do

  • So you let him go in without a condom and you're mad? Funny

  • I do ask if it's safe. You did let him in bare, so there is always that risk unless you speak up about it beforehand.

  • Well if you are gonna fuck some guy raw at a party I guess you deserve it

  • I've had girls both say, don't cum in me and, it's okay to cum in me. Everyone involved has to speak up.

  • That’s not good

  • That is absolutely wrong! This guy is a piece of shit. He is a scumbag that needs a dick in his ass and load shot in him. Sorry this happened to you

  • Wait. You’re supposed to check first? What happened to being spontaneous?

    • Well yknow some people don't really wanna get pregnant from a hook up

    • @maria_cam Yep. I learned that the hard way.

  • so you had unprotected sex, and now you're complaining about it?

  • Lol no guy has ever fucked me, and it's staying that way.

    As for you, this is sorta tantamount to rape.

  • If you let me inside you bare, I fully assume I'm allowed to do what I want. You should always tell someone before you fuck what you want.

    • yeah i agree with that, if you don't want it, don't let him do it in the first place

    • Thats a stupid assumption to make... Its like saying u let me in ur house so i assumed i can open ur fridge... like no wtf u idiot

    • Except you only go in a vaginas for one reason. You go into a house for lots of reasons.

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  • Well should asked first

  • YOU fucked some random dude you met the same nite... let him go raw and then expected him to respect you!!! Are you fucking retarded?

  • It is your responsibility to let the guy know if he can cum in you or not.

    • he should also check if he can or not

    • @zyrensong Absolutely right...

    • @zyrensong ultimately it's the girl who has to make it clear what he can or cannot do. If I'm having unprotected sex with a guy and I don't want him cum in me. I'm not going to stay silent and hope he ask , then act surprised if he didn't. I'm responsible for my body, not him.

  • Cumming inside is the most natural part of sex. If you didn't want him to cum in you , you should have told him before you have sex.