Did a guy from bumble that cum in me use me?

[Anonymous]

I met a hot guy on bumble and 19 and he's 23 and all was good. We had sex but then he cum inside me like it was normal. He did not ask or anything. He was on top holding me tight and I really couldn't stop him when I knew. Then after he said he always cums inside. Do lots guys do this?

[Leapfrog00]

Yes, if you don't establish some kind of communication first, and let the guy know you don't want him to cum inside you. If a guy isn't wearing a condom, he usually won't pull out because the sex feels really good, unless, the girl tells him otherwise.

Most guys announce when they're going to cum though.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Condoms prevent minivans & hopefully you are on the pill & if he blew a load in you & you aren’t on any birth control start looking out your window & look up in the shy for the stork. As for your bumble boom buddy he should of pulled out & most of all you should of said dude cum on me not in me so both of you are to blame. On the other hand maybe the sex was so good he couldn’t help himself & couldn’t pull out in time.

[BasedBaeBecca]

Yes, but without asking and without your permission? That is very irresponsible of him. Next time, you need to set clear boundaries and expectations and make sure your partner agrees first.

[UmaOrelha]

I think it is completely normal to cum inside a woman's vagina. Pulling out is just un-natural.
If you did not say anything, how would he know that was not cool with you?
But, I would have asked before hand because I certinaly would want to know if their was any risk of you getting pregnant. If you were just grossed out about it, i would probably not have sex with you.

If this was just a hook up, aren't you both using each other for sex?

[ObscuredBeyond]

Play stupid games on Bumble...

[integrale77]

This is why you get them to put a condom on before any penetration happens then there is no confusion.

For a guy being allowed bareback makes you think ok so she is good for me to cum in her if there was no talk about pulling out to cum.

[Billlewis]

If they can, they absolutely will.

[Gent207-2]

Yes he used you as he clearly does not respect your boundaries

[MementoMori777]

i think its quite obvious that he used you but to be fair I don't know what the normal on bumble is but i wouldn't be surprised if players feel entitled enough to feel like thei can cum in every woman they fuck.

[Asker]

That is what I was thinking

[MementoMori777]

fair enough

[ProbablyClueless]

If the guys can get away with it, a lot of them will cum inside, yes. That doesn't make it okay though.

[Asker]

I think so

[Fireguy17]

Yes, if they can get away with it.
Keep some condoms on hand just in case.
1 strong swimmer and it's happy Mothers Day cards for the rest of your life.
You will be in for a lifetime of struggling.
The vast majority of the time he will not be around to help you.
Just keep that in mine.

[humanearth]

No a lot of guys don't do that

He is just looking to get as many women pregnant as passable

[bowenw]

I would never do that kind of thing without consent.

[CantMissIt]

It happens to women that let losers have sex with them.

[Asker]

I guess

[Sparkie460]

It should never be done unless you talk about it before you get naked.

[RyanK9b]

Sure. I like to go full inside. Thats my instinct.

[kellytheman]

I think most Gus do either because they don’t or can’t pull out on time. You guys should of use protection like a condom even though it might feel better without one it’s better than having a unplanned pregnancy or a STD. I cum in my inside my girl but we use different sorts of protection like birth control pills and i do tell I am about to cum.

[AydenHazor]

That's usually something you want to establish before you go up with someone. Given, cumming inside without getting the okay is a jerk move regardless

[FireFox001]

That's down right the sexual assault category, EXCEPT:

did you tell him up front not to do it? If not, you are an idiot. If so, he committed assault.

[Jerre]

I always cum in a girl, but they know that before we start.

[Pterodon]

You just assumed he wouldn’t? You didn’t tell him not to before you ever started?

[karekaaaa]

No i never cum inside tbh

[Asker]

I thought guys wanted it

[karekaaaa]

I wish to do But i keep it for my wife

[Asker]

Oh you are nice

[karekaaaa]

Thanks ❤️ Im virgin by the way I keep sex feeling to wife And i just make out

[Asker]

Best to have sex before marriage to make sure the sex matches since after marriage too late and might cause huge problems

[karekaaaa]

May u dm me?

[karekaaaa]

Just wanna ask u why u said this

[Anonymous]

That's what happens when you have sex with random people. If you were in a relationship things would be different with communication and caring.