Did he get a boner?

[Anonymous]

So basically I went to see this guy. When I walked in he was wearing sweatpants. But when I got comfortable with him in his bed I started to see a bulge. Not really a boner but I saw a bulge. Like his dick print started to show more as I got comfortable with him. And like I pulled down his pants and he immediately started ejaculating and someone told me that seeing a bulge doesn’t necessarily mean he’s turned on. I don’t know he didn’t get a boner because it wasn’t straight up it was to the side and bulging I don't know y'all. Help😭

[Hulk_kitty]

Its very possible he had boner, if he has strong sexual attraction towards you. But a bulge in a guys doesn't mean an erection, it all depends on a lot of things, as well, like the type of pants he was wearing, or how big his package his without an erection.

To be honest, why are you so concerned if he has an erection or not. The only time it should concern you, if you are having sex.

Plus if I have an erection, your not going to see it, because I will adjust it, or I will tight boxers. The only time you are going to see my erection, is basically because I want you to see my dick.

[Asker]

I guess my problem is his dick didn’t do up. I know not every man’s dick will stand straight up when they’re hard. He was wearing tight boxers and sweatpants and the more I got close to him the more his dick started growing. Im concerned because I want him to be turned on by me.

[Hulk_kitty]

Well if want to know, if he is actually turned on by you, do it properly, and strip naked lol. Trying to anaylze if someone is turned on by you through their pants, is not really practical. If you really want to know if is turned by you, sit on his lap, and grind him for a bit, or longer depending you want to make him cum.

[Hulk_kitty]

For a girl to turn me on, she would actually have to be a bit naughty, she would have to be a bit naughty with me, either grind me, or touch my crotch. But just talking to her, will not turn me on.

[Asker]

I mean I can make him cum without me sitting on his face. Like I said earlier he came just from me talking to him and sitting next to him.

[Mansearching]

If he was asleep he started getting nocturnal penile tumescence. He was getting enfulfed. He had a wet dream. Now that's only if he was asleep when you came over.

It wasn't a full boner unless it was fully hard. Just bc of a bulge doesn't mean a boner.

[Asker]

No he wasn’t asleep. He wasn’t hard when I first came there but when we started getting comfortable I noticed he started getting hard and I noticed the bulge.

[Mansearching]

Ok then it was probably bc of you.

[Asker]

I saw the bulge and he was hard and he had those eyes that guys have when they’re turned on lol. But his dick just didn’t go up.

[Mansearching]

He needs to get checked by a urologist.

[Asker]

Yea his cum tasted salty too

[Mansearching]

That means nothing. If he can't get it all the way up he has a problem. I get checked every year. It doesn't hurt.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Are you, shall we say, "new at this?"

You asked "But can’t you be fully hard and not have a boner"... what do you think a boner means? If you're fully hard you have a boner. They're both synonyms for erection.

[Dargil]

Odds are, it was.

[Sunnybeach123]

Erections don't always point up. They come in all shapes and sizes and point out at many different angles.

[Asker]

Really?

[Sunnybeach123]

Yes, mine points out straight forward sticking out from my body, and is curved like a banana, so that it points to the left.

[Asker]

Yes his curves too. It doesn’t point straight up

[Sunnybeach123]

It's not uncommon. I'm not sure why but for some reason my erection has always curved far to the left and sticks straight out at a 90 angle from my body. I wish my penis would point straight up. My erection is weird and girls have told me so. I even asked my doctor about why my penis is shaped that way lol

[Alex-Snow]

It just may have been semi hard and not a full boner. Did he cum even without you giving him a handjob? How old is he? Is he a virgin and kinda new to sex?

[Asker]

So the first time I came over he was really nervous and excited and he came before we even did anything. The second time I came over I gave him a handjob and he came. But can’t you be fully hard and not have a boner. And if you do have a boner does it have to be up?

[Alex-Snow]

If you have a full boner it is hard and pointing staright up or out

[Asker]

He was hard and he was turned on but it wasn’t pointing straight up.

[Alex-Snow]

How does it point if he is standing up? Straight out or up?

[Alex-Snow]

I bet he loves the handjobs! Is he a virgin?

[Asker]

It’s like up a little bit but it rests on the side

[Asker]

Yea I gave him a handjob and he fell asleep after that…

[Alex-Snow]

He is not fully hard then but at least he can have an orgasm... does he return the favor to you?

[Asker]

He tried too. I just wasn’t turned on by him😭 I felt bad because he’s obviously turned on and I’m not.

[Wise4myage]

If a guy has a bulge, then he is turned on. His just curves a bit and their is nothing wrong with that. :)

[Charliefretz329]

Bulge… ejactulation… ummm yeah. That’s pretty self explanatory

[Asker]

I just afraid it didn’t point up

[Charliefretz329]

Well some guys have curved or bent boners.

[Yellovv]

I don't think so for one guy to cum that quick.

[Asker]

Well most guys I talk to. They tell me if a girl doesn’t make them cum they’re not attracted to her.

[Yellovv]

That's wrong, of course every man need to cum after a while but not that quick, you said he cum after you pull down his pants..

[Asker]

Well he was a virgin so I’m not sure if that had anything to do with it. I know a guy that told me the girls that couldn’t make him cum he wasn’t attracted to them

[Yellovv]

No, that's not true if I need to be honest, for example guys going escort girls and sometimes doesn't like girls but still he can able to cum..

[Asker]

Well most of those guys are virgins. I wouldn’t say him and I decided to have sex on our first encounter we had dates before.

[Yellovv]

Teach him sex then if he don't know anything about it, suck his dick and put his dick inside your pussy with your hands, also teach him sex positions too..

[Immyallan01]

Probs was a boner then

[Anonymous]

I didn't get it, you pulled down his pants?