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Did he say there was no chemistry because he was embarrassed he couldn't get an erection?

We had a few dates, he seemed so keen and we ended up going to bed. He couldn't get an erection.

When we finally chatted about it a few days later, he admitted that although he felt a lot of chemistry with me on the first date (he had told me this after our first date too), he didn't feel the chemistry on the 2nd date. We both agreed we wouldn't bother with a 3rd date.

Since then, he has been contacting me a lot via text, trying to strike a conversation up, and we're now meeting later this week for a drink. I think as friends?

Could he had said he didn't feel chemistry to cover up his embarrassment? Or did the lack of chemistry mean he wasn't able to get an erection with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • They are attracted but are not in tune with themselves as a result they are not fully developed to participate completely in whatever pursuit they choose. Their ability to not only feel comfortable with themselves but others shows there's a lack of communication with others and themselves to a point where they di n oui t react think or perform according to what they believe. If they never get past this they will forever stay in this funk until something motivates them to wake up and live as well as feel. Regardless of the shyness embarrassment or shameness one can feel it's all part of the process.

  • He has ED. You don't need "chemistry" to get hard. He might be on medications, gay, watching too much porn or has psychological issues. But he isn't going to get better if his embarrassment allows him to blame this on you. It has NOTHING to do with you or chemistry.

    • Thank you for that xx

    • Anytime. Trust me if I'm attracted to you, you don't need to do anything other than be willing, for me to be physically able to have sex with you. The nice thing about guys with ED is they double down on giving girls oral, unless they are really immature.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think chemistry bring eraction

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  • I have no idea what's really going on. I'd treat your getting together as a friend zone meeting and if it develops into more, then you can ask him to explain himself.

    • We’re meeting up later this week. As friends... I think!

    • Good luck!! I hope it goes the way you want.

  • Something is wrong here. Has nothing to do with you, as he already admitted he was into you. Something to do with him, who knows what it is. Out of curiosity you can meet up again but start putting effort into finding someone else, this isn't going to end well in my opinion.

    • Thank you for that. Yea I was very confused how he was suddenly really into me and then wasn’t really into me at all... x

  • It happens sometimes. When expectation is much.

  • It may have been that he just wasn't physically attracted to you. Maybe you didn't fit into what he likes or prefers. I wouldn't sweat it though. Just move on.

    • But then why is he so keen to keep contact?

    • He might want to be friends. He might love your personality

  • he is hiding is the weakness, so funny and poor guy!

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