My girlfriend who I've been with for 3 months told me that she doesn't want me watching porn anymore. Yet she uses sex toys so I don't think that's fair. She doesn't think it's the same and I also feel like she's being controlling so I broke up with her.
I would rather watch porn than deal with her
Sorry, bro. But she is right. Porn and sex toys are not the same thing. Porn is watching other people fuck while you enjoy it. Using sex toys is just masturbation, unless she also watches porn while she masturbates with toys, but it sounds like she doesn't if she didn't like that you watch it.
How else is she controlling?
Well it's because she told me that I'm supposed to focus on her and sex is about me and her. I told her that using sex toys isn't focusing on me. I also think she's being very insecure. I like porn and she shouldn't be giving me ultimatums.
Consider this: maybe, just MAYBE she told you to focus on her because she didn't feel like you were that invested in her with sex, or doing a great job at sex, and is the reason why she uses sex toys. To make up for what you weren't giving her. Especially if you are that much into porn. Make sense?
Not really. I fuck her a lot, but I actually started watching porn because she works too much.
if you like porn more than the actual sex... then that is your choice
I was only with her 3 months and she wants me to wait around for her, then sometimes she don't even want sex. I could jerk off 5 times to porn before she even gets home.
so they you go... if you prefer it, then good for you
It's really weird to think it's okay to police how your partner masturbates.
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I don't know if she's wrong, but you are right for dumping her.
Well, its clearly obvious you prefer porn over pussy.
It’s not the same, but you should’ve left. That feels like controlling someone personal choices.
I think you chose wrong. Should have asked if you could watch her instead when she uses her toys.
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