Did I get raped?

I met a guy at a club and I was really tipsy. We had a nice time and we danced with each other. When the club closed we went to his place. After he put his cock in me I asked him to stop and said I don’t want this and he kept going until he came inside me.
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  • So did you wait until it was inside you to say stop? And why? Like did you want it and then change your mind? Maybe he was confused? lol Having said that, regardless you told him to stop and he should've respected that. Just speaking as a guy, knowing how good it would've felt for him being inside you, and then have you tell him to stop, would be horrible, and hard to stop. But like I say, he should've respected it anyway. You probably also didn't necessarily want him to orgasm inside you either I'm guessing? That's extremely selfish of him and a horrible position to put you in. It certainly sounds like rape, but I also kind of agree with the guy that wonders if there's more to this story? I'd like to know how his penis got inside you to begin with if you didn't want it? Did he force himself in? If so that's definitely rape.

    • I said I only wanted to cuddle and he said no he’s fucking me

    • OH... yeah you were raped. Did you report him? It's probably been too long now, but if you do a rape test kit, you might be able to get evidence still and charge him.

    • The problem will be proving it happened, but worth a shot.

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  • Maybe. Was your comment a forceful and absolute, NO / STOP? If you truly did forcefully and absolutely object / asked him to stop, clearly he should have. (A similar experience happened to me once in college and I did stop…. then we got dressed and I walked her home so she wouldn’t have to walk home alone at night).

    With that said, I also think/feel there is much more to the story that you are purposely leaving out.

    If I were you, I would just use this as a learning experience. Don’t go back to guy’s apartment/house after a night of drinking. If you do though, try to refrain from getting naked unless you are certain you want to have sex with the guy. Each step you make (leading toward sex) increases your vulnerability.

    Ultimately, it’s not worth reporting, it will likely end up being a he said/she said activity.

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  • Yeah that’s rape, you withdrew consent and he did not stop.

    when people say it’s hard to stop, I put money on a guy stopping if was a 9mm pressed against his head.

  • It is rape. But expecting a guy to stop when you have allowed him inside you is asking for more than you are likely to get. You should have your mind made up earlier as to whether you want to have sex or not.

  • No means no and he should have pulled out immediately

  • Yes. That said, the police will not help you.

  • Yes you were

  • You withdrew consent so the answer is yes, it was rape. The issue of proving it in a court of law is the problem.

  • Yes you were. Report it.

  • As you were "tipsy" you can't really be sure any of that happened.

    Else you would be talking to the cops, not a Q&A forum, right now.

    • I was tipsy I had three shots ofcourse it happened.

  • Yes.

  • What he did was wrong and you should have reported it, why not call the police when he was sticking his penis inside you?

    • It was wrong. That would have been impossible and you know it.

    • @Asker I know my friend wish you the best on this

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