Did I make her pregnant?

Had sex with her 18 weeks ago. She is on depo and had a tubal. Has no symptoms in the 18 weeks. Also used withdrawal. Urine tested negative 9 times over 18 weeks. Can we trust this result?

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  • Man, those negative tests over so many weeks is a really good sign y'all are in the clear. If she was gonna be pregnant, usually shows up by now on a test.

    A few things working in your favor:
    - She's on Depo shot, which is like one of the most effective BC methods out there if taken properly
    - Tubal ligation further reduces any tiny risk even more
    - You also pulled out, which gives extra protection when combined with other methods

    Basically with all those layers of protection stacked up, chances of her getting pregnant were already super slim to begin with. And now with nearly 18 weeks of negatives, I'd say you're safe to stop worrying. Those tests are very accurate by now.

    I know it's still nerve-wracking since it was a big risk taking things that far. But looks like you guys dodged a bullet this time! Might relax and celebrate finally getting the all-clear. Unless her period is like crazy late or something changes, I'd say you're in the clear bro.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Short of divine intervention, provided all of that is correct, yeah you should be pretty safe there. Has she not had a period in 18 weeks? That can be concerning for a number of reasons.

    • But the concern is, is it possible for all nine urine tests to be false negative? Is it necessary for her to go for bloods and an ultrasound or can we rely on these negatives?

    • I mean statistically it's possible, sure. Statistically it's possible that you personally could win the lottery while getting struck by lightening in a shark attack as well, but I'm not buying a rider to cash in on that personally. If she's had a period then I'm not sure why you're acting like this. If she hasn't had a period there's a host of medical reasons that could be, and that likely means she should get checked out to determine which it is, pregnancy not the most likely or important among them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've heard the depo shot isn't that reliable. Lots of women get pregnant while on it

  • How many periods has she had during these past 18 wks?

    • She bleeds almost everyday as a result of her pcos.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • If tests were different brands you are safe.

  • 9 negative tests would indicate she's not pregnant. She'd have so many hormones by now it should show up.
    If you're so worried though maybe you should abstain from sex

  • sounds like you got it covered.

  • The pull out method does not work. And she should go to the doctor!

    • Okay but the other methods of contraception? And the nine negative urine results?

    • Depo is not 100% and the pull out method isn't contraception! Go to the doctors

  • Woah! Paranoid much?