Did my boyfriend secretly want to cum in me this entire time and just thought I wasn't adventerous enough?

For the record I AM against my boyfriend coming inside me. Im not on birth control and even though Im not necessarily against having a baby I'm in no rush by allowing him to finish inside me. But what happened is we had sex without a condom before we started using condoms, but we only used a condom maybe 3 times out of the hundreds of times we have had sex. Every other time my boyfriend would pull out and cum in his hand. I was new to sex and embarrased to ask him what I really wanted because I thought he would judge me. So one day he pulled out but he did it just in the knick of time for his cum to land on me. And I was excited thinking "he came on me!" And I started giggling. And he looked confused and asked me "did you... want that? Is that what you like?" Afterwards he would cum on me rather than in his hand. We did that for a while until one day after sex he came and I got up and put his penis in my mouth. He of course really enjoyed it and again seemed surprised that I was interested in doing that. Everytime he would cum afterwards he would ask me to lick it up or to put it in my mouth. Now lately he has been asking to cum inside of me, and thats where I draw the line. He hasn't argued, but he is persistent. He has asked to cum inside me on a few separate occasions. Does he see me as more adventurous now? Is this what he wanted all along?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys are programmed to want to cum inside a woman's vagina, and the vagina is designed to bring the guy to orgasm. This is what has kept the species going. When a guy stays inside to climax it brings intense physical pleasure as well as an emotional sense of completion and being accepted (that's how it is for me, anyway). Some guys prefer oral for much the same reasons, but I have always preferred having my girlfriend bring me to orgasm while I'm in her vagina. But she's on the Pill, which makes it safe. If you're not on birth control it's a huge risk.

    • Yeah i dont want to risk it. I just wonder why he never asked me before

    • I don't know. Embarrassment, maybe? Possibly fear of getting you pregnant, but the thing in that case would be to wear a condom or ask you to get on birth control. I think I would have asked pretty early on. Maybe he's just starting to feel more comfortable and secure with you.

  • As a guy, I can testify that fuck bare is the best.

    But of course, after that is a month of fearful expectations that she doesn't get pregnant (LOL).

    So my Opinion is, your guy always want to cum inside you. But as all guys who just want a fuck, pregnancy and STD are what that put a condom on. Not hands.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys always want that, he probably didn't tell to you before because he knew you were new to sex and he didn't want to pressure you, but since you started to mix it up a bit he felt you'd be ok with it.

  • He is comfortable enough with you to ask be happy with that... if you aren't for it tell him... or maybe try anal he can cum in there without the pregnancy risk

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  • Probably a bit of both. Natural curiosity since it feels so good to keep going all the way. Pregnancy scares are usually enough to keep attempts at bay until the little head starts to over power the big one, you know?

  • Well, that is what he wants now, but you'd have to ask him if he wanted that from the beginning. Also yes, he probably thinks you're adventurous.

  • Mother Nature built men go want to dhaculste inside a woman's vagina. It's not surprising that your boyfriend wants to fo that. It's your choice though.

  • would you let him cum in your hair tho? ;D

  • No believe me he has wanted to cum in you the whole time he just didn’t want to make you mad and a guy cums so much more inside your pussy than in a hand it will fill you up and still run out lots of cum when you let him Finnish in you

  • Yeah he probably did want that and is probably getting a bit excited at these new opportunities but it is wise to be rational and remind him every now and then of the potential repercussions of one erotic experience

  • not coming inside is pretty disruptive of a certain flow a guy gets into.
    it's not a secret to him, he probably would want to come inside, might even wait a while for it.

    you wouldn't want it to stop for a sec if you're right in the middle of an orgasm right

  • He thought sence he was doing things you liked, you would do things he liked.

  • You just need to ask him to use condoms if he want to cum inside you. Fair deal.

  • Guys always want to cum inside. It feels 1000x better for us.

  • Dear I suggest you start birth control pills. You are dictating your way of having sex. He respects you and it is important for him to please you. So I suggest you start do the same before you loose one who respects your opinion this much. I is hard for a man to always pull out when cumming. As a woman wants to have some after play a man likes to stay inside his woman after orgasm. Kind of bonding.
    Just my opinion and I don't judge. Good luck.

  • Basement dweller...

  • every guy wants to cum in a girl, condoms are annoying, but, we just use them for "your sake"