Did my friend get harassed by refugees, or did she bring this on herself?

My friend was in an organzation that helped refugees in Sweden. I always supported the cause and will keep doing so but we did run into something really strange. My friend keeps in touch with some of the refugees to see how they are. 2 years ago, we went out with this one syrian guy and he was constantly touching my friend's butt. He even slapped it and said to her face she had a nice big ass and breasts. I thought he was really disrespectful, but my friend wanted to give him some relief after the shit he's been through and wanted to justify his behavior, so she took him home and let him fuck her. Two days later I heard he got the same from another girl in the organization.

A week later, we met up with him and a bunch of his friends. This one friend kept begging to stay at my place cause he had a shitty place to stay. I was really drunk and decided I'd let him sleep on the couch. Of course he kept pushing to sleep with me, and I let him. Of course he kept pushing and touching me. I just thought whatever and gave him a blowjob so he could empty his balls and leave me alone. I didn't mind at the time, did that to other guys before, but afterward I did feel a little used. He was also really rough during the bj and called me a slut all the time. Never got any form of thanks. He just nutted in my mouth, told me to swallow, said some stuff in arabic turned around and slept.

Just recently, my friend admitted that she let that first guy and four of his friends stay at her place. Of course they kept pushing again and they kinda ran a train on her. Not kidding. She keeps justifying these couple guys though. The only reason she admitted is because they took pictures and even videos and posted them on some vague website and she's afraid her recent boyfriend might find out. Should I get worried about that? I kinda blame my mistake on myself. Other guys have pretty much done the same to me. But doesn't her situation seem worse? Should I try to talk sense into her or let it be?
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  • Stupid behaviour from misguided women.
    How can you talk sense into someone when you have nearly carried on in the same manner?
    Your friend wasn't harassed. She gave it up willingly. Probably enjoyed it. Which is perfectly fine.
    Just be honest about it.
    Is it any wonder these so called refugees have no respect for the women of the country they were given asylum in.

  • Those refugees are probably Muslims, and Muslims treat women like shit. Any woman who isn't married or controlled by some man is considered a slut and a rape target for them. She was asking for it just by giving him anything like that, and he probably felt like he was entitled to it anyway, just because she's an infidel.

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  • Your friend brought it on herself by being an idiot and enabling these men (who I'll assume are Muslim) to treat women like dirt. Which is still the norm in their home-countries and will soon be the norm in the western world if people continue using 'poltiical correctness' to justify such feral behaviour.

  • I stopped reading after the first paragraph. If this stupid story is true yes this is your friends fault for going and fucking the dude like an idiot

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  • Yeah there is no reason to simpathize with those guys!! They maybe having a rough time... but that doesn’t mean that you should be letting them in your houses and deffinitly not your beds! Those guys don’t show respect for any women!!!

  • Well that's what happen when a foolish girl tries to help to a rapefugees.

  • Personal responsibility and common sense have left the building. You remind me of:
    1. A nurse that has an affair with a patient, thinking she can heal him.
    2. An ambassador being sent to a country and running for political office in that country.
    3. A coach in a university dating one of his students.
    4. Timothy Treadwell in his interactions with bears.

  • This is hilarious. So all the memes about Sweden and mighty rapefugees were true.

  • Yes, she was harrassed. Yes, she let herself be harrassed, but this doesn't mean that she deserved to be or deserves to be

  • This is why women should never be allowed to vote — the first world wouldn’t be flooded with third worlders and diversity wouldn’t be pushed as a tenet of a new religion. We are all finished because emotion and instead of thinking became our guide

  • Interesting. Just how big are your friend's breasts and ass? Was the dude being honest or just flattering her?