Girls, did my uncle touch me inappropriately?

For the holidays my family organised an early get-together where we invited my uncle (my mums brother) and his wife kids to the house.

I haven't seen him for about a year and a half.

I'm 15 and I was alone in the basement doing food prep when he came in and it was just us 2.

We were making chit-chat when he came up beside me and said "I haven't seen in you a while... god, you've got a gorgeous little bum"

*As he said that he placed the palm of his hands on my butt-cheeks, softly cupped and rubbed them for about 4 seconds then gave me about 3 gentle, light pats on the ass before walking off*

am I reading too much into that or was it innocent?
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  • To me it sounds like you touched inappropriately and I think you should tell your mother. He is your uncle he should not be touching you like that, that is sexual harassment. Your are a minor at all only 15, he could go to jail. I recommend you tell a trusted adult, preferably your mother.

    • thank you, what do you feel was his motive behind it?

    • I don't know about any motive I just know he is your Uncle as you stated and he shouldn't be touching you like that. I just really think you should report it or tell your mother some trusted adult, and your welcome.

  • Inappropriate.

    When next with him and your family make a sort of joke by saying, hey uncle, do you still like my bum? Do I have to watch out for you squeezing it in the basement again... Say it light-hearted and smile.

    That should keep his hands off you.

    • don't want to rock the boat when it could have been innocent

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  • Yes he did, you should stay away from him and never be alone with him

  • Definitely inappropriate. Especially coming from an Uncle.

  • You knew the answer to this question when you wrote it.

  • did it realy bother you. is your pussy made out of gold? put yourself in his shoes. maybe you should be flattered. or would you feel more like a women if he went to jail.

    • interesting way to look at it.

    • linda are you insane? thats her uncle. anyhow its not ok for any guy to be doing that,.

  • Girl, I've read few comments here, and you will not rock the boat if you tell your parents. You have to. If you don't it propably will get worse. He might take it to a next level and even rape you, when he notices that you are not gonna tell. So talk to your mom or/and dad. That is inappropriate. Keep us updated hun❤

  • totally inappropriate...

    • why so?

    • I just think its not a gesture an Uncle should make... a hug. .. a pat on the back... even a kiss on the temple or caressing your cheek in my view is acceptable but not touching your rear...

    • I guess that makes sense. why do you think he done it?

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  • EWWW. Yes that is innapropriate. He is a sick pedophile and he just sexually molested you. Tell someone asap before it gets worse!

  • it is not innocent

  • He did touch you inappropriately. Tell your mom or dad or whoever you trust.

  • Ew. Stay away from this uncle. I have creepy male relatives too. Do all you can to steer clear of them.

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