Did she trap me?

[Anonymous]

I have been in a situationship for 18 months we have never used condoms a few months ago we got into a argument because I accidentally came in her and she did not want to take a plannb at first after that incident she went to get on birth control that was around January she got the birth control shot now she's telling me she's pregnant

And we had a conversation a few days ago before she told me she was pregnant and she told me its pointless to work on a relationship if I don't want to have kids with her I told her I want to be married before I have another child I already have a 3 year old Would i be wrong to ask her to get a abortion and did she trap me

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Women like that deserves to get their tubes tied. If I were a guy, I would just ghost her. No-one should be forced to be a parent. I think you can file a restraining order.

What day in January did she get her shot? 3 months is when she's supposed to go back to get another shot. If she didn't show you a positive pregnancy test, then I think she's just testing you, which is not cool. I think she wouldn't actually be pregnant if she just got off the shot.

This woman... if she wanted kids, she would have talked to you about it and wouldn't be mad at you for impregnating her. Why do women think that abortion is a bad thing? If you get one, knowing that you cannot afford to keep an infant, then abortion is the only choice.

Did you know that the birth control shot can mess with a woman's eggs? I think it depends on how long she has been on it, though.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

It’s impossible to know.


You and her both played a part in this, you knew what you two were doing and the risks and consequences, and you need to either accept responsibility, or move along. If you wanted to get married before having another child, you should be having unprotected sex, and neither should she.



It would be smart if you two sat down and discussed what the plan is going to be. Ultimately, you have a few options.

• Abortion
• Adoption
• Getting into a relationship/married
• Go separate ways

Choose wisely, you knew the consequences, my friend.

[ChrisMaster69]

So you get into a relationship (already having a kid), have unprotected sex.

You both don’t discuss what happens if you get her pregnant..

she then gets pregnant …

You are both fucking stupid.

Really you both need to look at what you have both done.

utterly pathetic

[ChrisMaster69]

@babybunny06 exactly, not really hard

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know ask her about it lay it all out on the line but anyway keep the baby don’t kill it

[In_Trance]

You trapped yourself

[Anonymous]

Bro you made some stupid ass decisions yourself.

Yes she trapped you but you could have been smarter.

[Anonymous]

She trapped you dude