Did someone you liked a lot break your heart? How did you deal with it?

[Babygirl_S]

I was crazy about a guy in college. He was from a different college and popular with gorgeous blue eyes. After the first date, he said we should go to a spa and enjoy a naked couple massage (exactly what he said). He said he would pay for everything. I felt so worthless and cried a lot that night. I wanted him to fall in love with me but he made me feel like a prostitute.

I was really depressed. I remember losing the desire to even eat anything. At least I managed not to cry in public. It still hurts that he didn't want to woo me. He was clearly looking for a fling. I like to think that's the kind of person he was but I could be wrong. Maybe he gives roses to the other girls and takes them out on romantic dates 😭

[connemara_crocodile]

I fell in love a few years ago with a girl from another country that was visiting mine. I wanted to live at least for a while in that country (sorry I never give too much information about myself just in case so I'll keep the country off) so it felt like meant to be.

She was so freakin intelligent and interest to talk to, and at the same time so fun! I had the best dates with her and my god she was good in bed, not too experienced, but tried really hard and was open to everything, she even shared some of my kinks. But above all, I felt HAPPY with her.

A while after she finished her trips I moved to her country, not because of her but because I wanted and was on my plans already, but she did sped up me going. We became 'official' and everything, met her parents, etc.

But a while after I moved she dumped me cause she wanted to focus on her career and her singing. I felt it was strange she was a 29yo with only one short relationship before me, so I should've known.
But she made me feel I was just a fling from her trips and that when she got home she didn't know what to do with me.

It took me 2 years to recover from her. I dated a lot of people after her, pne even a serious relationship that lasted for a few months and still I couldn't stop missing her.

Eventually the love fade off, met someone I loved more and it replaced her in my heart.
Now I only feel glad that I had the opportunity to be with her when not many had.

Quite a different story than yours, but my point is, it can be very very bad, but time heals everything, the good and the bad experiences. You'll just meet someone that will make you forget about that experience you had.

Just another past event in your calendar.

[htmndg183]

Kept myself busy. Tried to focus on my current situatuons and challenges. Made friends. Took up activities

[Sour-rose]

You do see my name right? It wasn't IRL but it hurt to know i wasn't clicking for them and they coldly told me to piss off. And it hurt but that's why there's sour petals around the rose. The rose can heal and be just fine, but the sour petals is what protects the rose from getting hurt easily

[MementoMori777]

I delt with it like everyone does, with time p

[MementoMori777]

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[Ur1local2bisexual]

Yes cried

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[dinojames22]

Same

[dinojames22]

Still dealing with it