Girls, did that makes my ex boyfriend really gay?

Lady_Di Xper 2

So, we separate from each other, because he have fantasies and desires about cocks and men. Also he like to wear women's lingerie, clothes and etc. He still contacts me, ask me to help him understand if he is really gay, but I am not that acknowledge with this topic. He really loves/loved me, he has shown it, but now he tolds me that he had these desires about men, since he was a teen (he is 27 now), so is this mean he is gay? I mean because he fantasies how he sucks cock and want to have sex with a man and he likes to wear girl's panties and imagine himself like us.

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Swe_Elin Xper 5
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He is not gay I think, if he was he would not have loved you - but bisexual he might be, and to that a crossdresser or even transgender perhaps. But his feeling for you have always been real and honest, you have to give him that. He is not trying to replace you tho, to be honest.

Talk to him, and see that he is just the same sweet guy you met before. He has not changed a bit by telling you this, he is still the same. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him - that's up to you, but it should not mean that you lose him as a really good friend.
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- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Thank you for your answer. I dont know, I read online that some men can love a woman and still find out later that they are gays, but I dont know. For sure I think he is into crossdressing. And honestly I think he is a great man, like a person, so I would love to help him somehow.
- Swe_Elin
  +1 y
  My closest and best friend is bisexual and a transgender MTF, and I have other friends which some of them are gays and some are hetrosexuals. I can ensure you that he is not gay, bisexual he might be but not gay. A lot of men get this bi-curious feeling, that I think he has. A lot of men crossdress too, and it's more common that many think, andd is done by both hetrosexuals and bisexuals - but not so much gays because they like the all male part (if they are not transgender). I think the best way for you to help him is just to be there for him, and just talk. Be curious of why he feels that way, and how he knows that's the way. Just be the best friend you can be, and support him.
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Okay I will try! Thank you for your opinion and advice!
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- Swe_Elin
  +1 y
  And just be you - that's the thing to remember - and that's what he wants you to be, too!
laurieluvsit Master
+1 y
He is not interested in changing.

Lots of guys have this fetish. It is one of the more common ones.

If you don't like it than stay away from him or tell him that you just want to be friends is all.
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- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  What you mean by he is not interested in changing?
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  Most guys that have that fetish can't help themselves
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  So is that mean he is gay?
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- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  No, he's not gay if he still likes girls sexually, he may be bisexual but doesn't have to be to enjoy girls lingerie.
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  But he said he doesn't have sexual desires for girls anymore..
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  Yes, than he is definitely drifting to the gay side, yes
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Oh my, he will have a thought life then. In our city in our country this is not accepted well. I don't know how can I help him. I mean, he was my fiance, we have a wedding almost set up and now..
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  Life is full of tough choices but you should only marry someone that you are accepting of and will be happy with.
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  well, yeah, but I dont want to marry a gay guy.., so thats it for him. I will tell him to accept that he is gay and maybe soon he will start sucking dicks and getting fucked..
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  If he isn't already... lol
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Well I know for sure that he sucked one cock, but I don't know if he had one in the ass yet.
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  Some guys only like oral, they don't like anal. Is it ok with you if he would only do oral on guys and not do anal, than you would be ok with it?
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  No, no. But he likes anal, I am sure. He had been experimenting with objects, I have seen his hole. Its bigger than mine. And I had anal sex 2 times. In his butt for the moment, there have been only objects, but his butt hole is really open and stretched.
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  Well, he has probably been having anal sex too then and just not telling you.
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Well it could be. He told me he only sucked one cock and fucked his ass with objects very often.
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  I wouldn't believe a word he says, he is just trying to minimalism what he is doing is all
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Yeah, maybe he was fucked by other men too, not just with objects, but this mean that our whole relationship was a lie, he was gay all along..
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  I think so. Just find a straight guy that you don't have to worry about. The trouble is more and more guys are becoming tempted to try gay sex and you never know for sure if they won't
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Yes. I mean cocks are great, so in a way I understand them wanting to try.. But I will have doubts for other men too now. Honestly my brother is probably gay too, he never was with a girl and now he is 25 years old, never had a girlfriend, nothing. Also he is more feminine, not like my ex, who is masculine, but even him wants to wear thongs, sucking cocks getting fucked.. I don't know. The future is not bright. ;)
- laurieluvsit
  +1 y
  ... lol

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AmandaYVR Editor
+1 y
Is this your boyfriend?
Whether this guy is gay or bi, he's definitely one or the other.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/batkoo0
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Smilingqueen2 Xper 6
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He should change himself
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- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  What you mean by that?
- Smilingqueen2
  +1 y
  He might be, but he should not give in for his stupid feelings
- Lady_Di
  +1 y
  Well, he kind of already give in. He told me that he sucked a dick..

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