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Guys, Did this guy cum or no?

I hooked up with a different guy around my age and I'm curious about something. He snapchatted me dirty things all week and kept saying things like, "I'm going to cum so fast with you." Well, when we finally meet up at a house, we pretty much just start doing sexual things. I sucked him for a little bit and then he ate me out. Then we had sex. Not even exaggerating, as soon as he put his penis inside, he said that he was about to cum and pulled out. I watched him stroking it and what came out were like two drops? I thought that cum was much more than just a couple drops? Was he just faking so he could get it over with? Did he even cum? I thought that the amount of cum was usually much more, like about a teaspoon or over. What happened here?
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  • He could have problems with his prostate, that would have made those ropers from his youth into sad little drops that evaporate before they can reach their target. I mean, on average it affects men who are older, but it can happen younger.

    More likely is that he was just very excited, and very nervous. The two compete with each other. I won't lie, it's happened to me before, getting off really ridiculously fast, and not getting off very much... though not both at the same time, I also don't do that pull-out nonsense.

    So, you get excited, you get hyped, you get so so eager for all the awesome things that you're going to get to do! It's kind of like taking a puppy for a walk, they piss on the rug before you put the leash on. I mean, not so big a deal if you build anticipation in a woman like that, for a guy though, pretend you're asleep... lol Happened to me when I had sex with a virgin, of course I didn't believe her and pushed in, then pushed harder, and good god trying to push past an obstacle I've never felt before into a tightness I never felt before, I don't think I got all the way in before I got off.

    I'm sure it sticks out as fantastic in her memory forever. Now onto nervousness, or intoxication, as both have done the same to me in the past, intoxication the very recent past. With practice and a tolerance for alcohol you can overcome whiskey dick, to stay hard, but getting off is still a battle that takes hours of effort to have a very underwhelming orgasm. Same thing but on a lesser scale when feeling under pressure or nervous, especially about your performance, though, again, the tendency is to go limp before getting to orgasm rather than having the practice and fortitude to stay hard and just have a crappy orgasm.

    • Do you think he had a crappy orgasm since it was so fast?

    • Do you think he even actually came? He pulled out as soon as he put it in, so I don't think he would've done that so fast unless he came, right?

    • You got me, only you and he know that, to get off so fast I doubt the orgasm was crappy, more that he felt nervous and like you were going to judge him or something. Probably the best thing for him would be to pretend like nothing felt off at all... you know, unless it becomes a pattern. Everyone has off days and mistakes, so just chalk it up to that, and move forwards. Maybe tell him to get off inside you as well, I mean, I never tried the pull-out stuff, but it seems like that would be a lot of added pressure too. If women were told to simply stop sex before an orgasm, then get off in a way their partner could watch... a lot less of y'all would be getting off on a regular. I don't know, just try again, and see what happens. If it keeps being swift, drippy disappointment then that would just be sad.

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  • There are a few conditions which can cause a guy to have a low volume of ejaculate. Low testosterone, diabetes, and multiple sclerosis can all cause this condition. It also happens as a part of the normal aging process in men, and it normally becomes noticeable in men more than fifty years old, but this part of the aging process can begin with guys as young as their early twenties.

    There is even a condition in which a guy has an orgasm but does not ejaculate externally at all; instead, the ejaculate flows the opposite direction and goes into his urinary bladder. To the guy, such an orgasm feels identical to a normal orgasm. This can happens with diabetes or as a side effect to medications used to treat prostate disorders.

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  • Yeah sounds like he came really fast. If he jerks off a lot or has sex a lot then it's possible his nuts were a little on the empty side which would explain why the amount produced seemed small.

    It could be the opposite problem some guys go and go and go until they wear themselves out from exhaustion and then can't cum.

  • if only that much came out, he either didn't cum or he had a ton of sex (with someone or masturbating). The only time that ever happened to me is when I have already cum multiple times in one day.

    • If he didn't cum, why would he say that he's cumming as soon as he put it in and then he took it out? Maybe he didn't like my vagina as soon as he put it in so he just said that he was about to cum so he didn't have to fuck?

    • Cus he be excited and not experienced

  • If he masterbaits a lot or has a lot off sex thats more then possible

  • He may have cum inside you but you should have noticed some leaking out afterwards. If you see him again try to make him cum without intercourse with a hand job or blowjob so you'll have a better idea of the amount he cums.

  • Wonder if he jerked off before seeing you too, and if you sucked him where he came a little bit, that's already twice. So his third when he attempted to go inside within that short of timespan might mean he didn't have much left to ejaculate.

    Guys have to replenish over time in a sense.

    • When I sucked him, he didn't cum. He wanted to have sex and we did, but he came really quick and it was a very small amount.

    • yeah he probably jerked off before seeing you, maybe a few times. There is just only so much cum that can be produced in a short amount of time.

  • He might have masturbated repeatedly thinking about what's coming, hoping that he wouldn't be as sensitive and wouldn't cum too fast. But your pussy is obviously magic because you made him cum quick anyway. Because he already jacked off a few times that day his balls were just empty.
    You'd have to see how much he came on a regular basis to know how much he usually cums.
    No biggie.

  • If he didn't cum inside you, then his squirt gun was low. And that can happen.

  • most likely came earlier.

    • If he came earlier, did he not cum with me? I swear, he pulled out as soon as he put his penis in and said he was cumming. Then he stroked it a. couple times and like 2 watery ropes came out. I thought cum was a lot more than just a couple drops?

    • Yes most likely jerked off sonewhere.

  • Oooof

  • Wish i would have a friend like u who would like to watch me stroking too and flirt with me 😭


    I really miss my online friends with benefits since she left I haven’t played in months now 😭
    Its so frustrating

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