Did you ever had sex for favours?

[Anonymous]

One of my friend owe me some money. One day she call me to come her home. I thought I will get my money back. But she had different plan. So when we are hanging out. She start seducing me. I end up having a blow job from her and didn't mention money 😂
I'm not rich
Is there a chance I'm getting my money back?

[Anonymous]

She used that to manipulate you into forgetting about the money. Who knows if she plans on ever paying you back? If it’s not a lot of money, you might just chalk it up to a life lesson learned and let it go. If you’re a devious person, you could try to get more sexual favors out of her but 2 wrongs don’t really make a right.

[Asker]

Yeah I really feel bad about myself. I should have resist. I'm single so it wasn't easy. And I kinda enjoy that bj. Since that day I have been thinking about having sex with her. My demons are getting out of control 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

Of course if you start having sex with her, she may consider that payment enough and you’ll never see the money.

[Asker]

I like her tho 🤣

[AmandaYVR]

Pretend like the bj didn't happen. And the next time either of you contacts each other, get straight to business and matter of factly ask for the money back. Don't wait, don't waver, don't chuckle out of nervousness, nothing.
Act like she did that because she wanted to. And you want your money.

[Asker]

Woah I will try that But I really sucks in asking back my stuff from people. Maybe because I'm introvert

[AmandaYVR]

I know it's absolutely awful. It's even harder to say no in the first place. But you gotta do it. If not for necessity and financial reasons, but for the principle of it.

[Asker]

I don't think she is a bad person. She needed that money. When she was doing it. I didn't think her as a slut but I thought she really likes me. And honestly it isn't that much of money.

[AmandaYVR]

If you think she really likes you then ask her out! Maybe you should contact her and gently remind her about the money owed. And if she reacts as she should, and agrees to come and bring it to you, then you tell her, "I'd love to take you on a date" and then smile as she hands you the money. I guess it would look like a bit of a test. Which is sort of it. But it is also fair. Or maybe meet up for a simple walk in the park, no cost involved. It's up to you, but the chance that she thought she could pay you back that way... that wouldn't sit well with a lot of people. So why don't you find out whether all this is just some excuses, a ruse, to have contact with you?

[Asker]

We have been talking a lot like eveyday since I have her money 😂 I'm might take her to dinner and ask her to pay. And then I tell her. Now you have to pay back less money 😂 She will think me as an asshole and goes my chance of having sex with her.😂

[AmandaYVR]

Hmmmm. It's sounding more like she borrowed the money to have a reason to talk to you. ? You can finesse that situation a little better. Nicer? More playful? Do it serious... then with a wink.

[Asker]

Offcourse I won't be rude to her. And thank for answering me 😙

[AmandaYVR]

Of course. Yw.

[Asker]

☺️😊😊

[AmandaYVR]

This is a very interesting turn of events. 👀

[Asker]

Yeah have no control over it 😂

[TonyV]

Hope you didn't give up to much cash just for a blowjob, I mean if there was no verbal agreement take her to small claims court, I doubt she's gonna tell the judge she blew you to attempt to get out of paying lol

[Asker]

Lol I give money as a friend not blowjob. And I'm not taking my friends to court. I will just think it as bad investment.

[Anonymous]

You're probably not getting any of your money back. How much was it?

[Asker]

It wasn't much. Couple of bj will cover that lol 😂

[Opinion Owner]

That seems very fair. Can you get her to do it naked and include swallowing as part of the deal?

[Asker]

Nah sir i want my money back 🤣

[CuriousWife34DD]

Most won’t admit it, but it’s pretty common practice for us to give head when we want something from you—for me, I do have to kinda like you some though. I have a few guy friends I like enough to offer them such a favor and I like to think it’s a win-win.

[lilyanony1]

No never for favours... I don't like to be beholden to people, nor do I want to degrade myself like that.

[Asker]

Self respect ☺️😊

[dustybiker]

You're accepting like that is really just as bad..

[dustybiker]

*Your

[Asker]

I don't know how to react on this event lol 😂 feel like a bad guy

[BlondeGoneWild]

Not instead of a favor, but as a favor itself yes

[Asker]

😂 that's the kind of answer I want.

[Hangry06]

She already paid it back.

[Asker]

Lol this was costly

[Lizaxx]

How much money we talking about here?
I mean if it's a few dollars... well a chick you like just sucked you off! Count your blessings and move on.
Was it a few hundred? Then grow a pair and ask her if she's planning on paying you back anytime soon... or at the least if she's gonna swallow next time😘

[Asker]

Lol I'm not gonna treat her like a slut. It was just 200 . I think she will give me back