Did you have sex the first day you went out on a date?

Question

Personally, I didn't do this until after a while

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Usually not.

With most of my girlfriends, we went on a few dates before getting into committed (sexual) relationships.

There were two different girls I got to know at work (different jobs) who invited me to their homes with the idea that I was picking them up to go on a date. When they invited me inside, though, we wound up engaging in urgent sex.

There was another lady who I had known years ago in Jr. High and High School. I had thought she was sexy as hell, but she had been three years younger, so I never showed interest back then. She found me and contacted me. I drove 2 hrs to meet her in 29 Palms, Ca. She took me on a scenic tour of the desert and wound up straddling me on the bench seat of my car.

I wound up going steady with all those girls, but the relationships didn't last.

itsJay · Accepted Answer

Mm, no I couldn't do something like that. I need some kind of emotional connection to want intimacy from another person.

I've had girls ask me for it on the first date, and every time I said no because one date just isn't enough to get a good read on how I vibe with them.

Maybe I'm a little more romantic than others. ^^

UnknownPuppet · Accepted Answer

Yes. It depends on the moment. I am not always having sex at the first date but sometimes you may have so much chemistry with that person that you can not handle it. And it just happens...

Emilyis · Accepted Answer

NOPE! They knew it wasn't going to happen either.

MrsTurkleton · Answer

With one person, I did, but not generally

Guy13 · Answer

Never have...

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah im not “easy”

katiesmuff · Answer

It did happen!

rachel776 · Answer

yes sometimes

mandyfire98 · Answer

It's happened

PeteBy · Answer

Yes personally but it's not a badge of honour. Just happened.

SaraSmith24 · Answer

No, only little touches, harassing is the best thing because both of us was enjoying 😂😗

20yearsolder · Answer

Yes, I have done this

AviatorTom · Answer

On two occasions, yes, we had sex on the first date. One was just oral, the other involved intercourse.

Dargil · Answer

We had been on the phone together for weeks. We knew each other and had met in person in the course of business. I brought her to my place in the mountains for the weekend. Technically yes, but it was a very enjoyable, romantic weekend, not a hook-up.

imjustadude · Answer

Sometimes, hard for me to say no when she puts her hand down my pants. I know. I know. I should have higher standards...

JessJJ · Answer

Yes usually.

exitseven · Answer

No, The first couple of girls I dated I did not have sex with them.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I guess you could say that. It wasn't exactly a date, she just wanted to see my band play but, during the breaks between sets, we'd go out on the front porch to talk (It was a college house party), she started making out with me and, by the end of the night, she wound up in my bed and we fucked twice.

Light909090 · Answer

Haven’t been on a date with a girl in awhile got some bias going on don’t wanna spend my money on a girl that already has enough money to pay for her own food seems selfish for girls to have money but want me to pay for there food when they already have enough money for food