Did you, or did you not, penetrate yourself (with a toy) before you ever engaged in intercourse? & Was your first intercourse painful or not?

And what type of toy would you recommend for a virgin to try first? Is this type of g-spot vibrator too big?
Did you, or did you not, penetrate yourself (with a toy) before you ever engaged in intercourse? & Was your first intercourse painful or not?
By the way, I don't want to hear any preaching from people who say that toys take away your virginity: by that logic, men are gay if they masturbate because they're giving a handjob to a man. I'm not losing my virginity if I'm not having sex with another person.
I penetrated myself with a toy before being penetrated by a penis, & I did NOT experience pain during my first intercourse
Vote A
I penetrated myself with a toy before being penetrated by a penis, but I still did experience pain during my first intercourse
Vote B
I did NOT penetrate myself with a toy before being penetrated by a penis, but I did NOT experience pain during my first intercourse
Vote C
I did NOT penetrate myself with a toy before being penetrated by a penis, & I DID experience pain during my first intercourse
Vote D
I've never been penetrated by a penis, but I've penetrated myself with a toy
Vote E
I've never been penetrated by a penis, and I have NOT penetrated myself with a toy
Vote F
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  • Nope, I didn't have any toys before I lost my virginity. And ya, first intercourse was painful but that's because I was super nervous and the guy I did it just shoved it in without proper foreplay so it hurt a lot and made me bleed. But I'm sure with proper foreplay, being relaxed and being fully aroused, first time should not hurt.

    I just recently got a g-spot vibrator and I've used it twice already but only on my clit. I've used a vibrator inside me once and it felt so weird. Didn't like the feeling. So I don't know. I'd have to try the g-spot vibrator inside me again to see if I'd recommend it lol cause I don't know yet.

  • I voted B. I used to fuck myself with my hairbrush handle, but it was still painful the first time I had sex.

    • Yay hairbrush handle! Many a teenage girl’s first love!

    • @Elliegirl I came so hard the first time I used my hairbrush handle and found my little spot. I was 14 and up till then I’d only cum from rubbing my clit.

    • It took me a couple tries before I found my spot. Once I found it... omg!

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  • It really depends. Do you reach a orgasm better while stimulating your clit or through penetration?

    If you cum faster and or better with clitoral stimulation, I would recommend a cheap vibrating bullet. Then you can work you way up from there.

    If you’re a penetration comer, get a small vibrating dildo. Generally keep it small for maintaining purposes.

  • For either gender, I would say your own clean hands, and water-based lube!!
    Most ladies don't get the most pleasure with penetration, but rather touching and rubbing their Clit.
    Using your hand, or liking rubbing on a pillow, or something else, is your preference, as whatever you like is best, for you.

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  • I bought my first sex toy before I ever had sex... but I never penetrated myself before with finger or toys. I have a clitoris stimulator and that was enough for me...
    I lost my virginity one week ago and it hurt a little bit at first but he made sure it would feel good really soon 😏

    If you are unsure what to buy, you could go to a sex shop, they helped me out and showed & explained me things

  • I have never penetrated my anus with a toy before my actual sexual encounters. But out of curiosity I tried a big cucumber up my ass and it hurt a lot as I was a fool to thrust so big in such tight hole.

    Since that day, I have never done anything like that, but brought a dildo for my girl.

    • you brought a dildo for your girlfriend

    • @Riley473 - Yes, as her birthday present and she loved it.

    • okay cool

  • Before losing my virginity I just used fingers or a brush handle.

  • I have a vibrator like that. But I think it was because when I used the vibrator. I was sufficiently self lubricated enough to when I put it in me. It didn't hurt to where I hated it. But with sex. I wasn't as prepared as I was with foreplay and I was scared and tense and not wet enough so it hurt.

  • No. I actually had a wand vibrator that I was given by a cooky aunt.

    • That’s funny - “Cooky aunt”... lo must be someone like that “crazy uncle joe”... lol every family has one. Lol

  • When I penetrated myself with a toy it didn't hurt but my first sex did

    • Bec i think the toy was smaller than the dick penetrated u

  • I did/not ever even think about inserting/not inserting anything like that in/ not in - me. Lol

  • I've never been penetrated by a penis, and I have NOT penetrated myself with a toy

  • Every girl puts something up her before she had sex with a guy! I got a friends vibrator when I was 14 and masturbated with in which included putting it inside me.

  • Virginity ends only from PIV or PIA intercourse. I qualify for E though.

  • No and no

  • I have that vibrator!

    • I have it too, but I haven't (fully) used it internally yet. I tried the other day and I didn't get it in fully, & there was a little bit of blood (but it wasn't painful though - I didn't even notice there was a tiny bit of blood until afterwards). Do you think it's too big for a virgin to fully insert? Are there smaller g-spot vibrators that could be more easily inserted?

    • That happened to me the first couple times I used it, (but I'm not a virgin, but I am really tight) it just takes some getting used to, I usually, if I'm wearing undies, I'll place it inside so it's pressed against my clit, and when I feel ready enough I'll put the vibrator in and I'll be wet enough and aroused enough to where it will slide in, sometimes it's still a little of a struggle but

  • Uhmmmm... I voted E... Yes, I've penetrated myself before...

  • I used a “beginner dildo” the first time I penetrated myself, but when the real moment came I felt some pain because he was bigger and longer than the toy I had used, so I wasn’t used to it.

    If you’re going to buy a toy and it’ll be your first time penetrating, make sure you aren’t buying anything too big. Start small or where you think you’ll be most comfortable and work your way up so you won’t cause any unnecessary pain. It’ll probably be painful anyway but just don’t rush anything.

  • I penetrated myself with my middle finger, and it did hurt. I'm virgin though.

    • How do u finger urself and still virgin?

    • @leonardo121 I'm not experienced*

    • Can we text?

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  • I penetrated myself before having sex for the first time & I did not experience pain during sex for the first time

  • I did an I didn't have pain.

  • The easiest way to loose you virginity is cowgirl. You control the pain, and the depth you let him in.
    Make sure you are sexually aroused and soaking wet first.

  • Never toyed around with my penetrations.

  • I penetrated myself with a toy before being penetrated by a penis, & I did NOT experience pain during my first intercourse

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