Different types of foreplay for guys? What turns on most men? I just started sleeping with a guy, and I'm a bit out of practice?

Prior to Saturday, I hadn't slept with anyone for about four years, so, I'm definitely out of practice. Pointers welcome! I'm not sure if this will help any, but the guy is 20, and I'm 26. Thanks everyone!
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  • This is what I'll do. There pre foreplay too, I'll send some naughty text, pictures that hint at the fact, and I'll normally prolong the dirty deed by asking her to come with me to pick up something or grab a bite to eat before. While we are out I constanly tease her; discreet grabbing, kissing on the neck, letting her know how hard I am by rubbing my dick on her ass, brushing my finger on the outside of her panties, and bring her to private areas for a little dry humping. Then when it come to foreplay I just like to make her feel like she's on fire! I like to keep a steady tempo going insync with the pace of her breathing. I love to eat pussy so I just go smack at it because the time being in public got her going already. While I'm down there I like to keep one of my hands around for assistance while the other one wonders but I mix it up with lifting her and change positions while I'm eating it, I don't know why but girls really like being tossed around in bed. I love it when a girl just sucks and jerk it at the same time and just straight p*rno star head, oh yeah and by the way make a fist with your thumb in while deep thoating, it help with not gagging. While she's going HAM on my dick it just make me want to... You get the point. Thats how I do it, just build up until they just want to explode! Lol this is why I need to stay single

  • The surest way to find the way to a man's sexual heart is to find out his darkest fantasies. You'll need to make him feel comfortable and secure that you won't judge him or go screaming from the room but will, to the degree you can, use role play sex to help him live those out and that you hope he'll do likewise. Most of us are kinky but afraid to admit it so if you are kinky or willing to give it a try, tell him that so he won't filter what he tells you to take out the rougher and kinky stuff.

    • I'll definitely found that out. Thanks!

    • Once you find out, message me and I'll help you come up with some scenarios.

    • Thanks for the MHO. What's the latest?

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  • Ohh look at you with your toyboy lol.
    Really, you don't need to do much to turn a guy on. Just touching him and being up close to him will really be enough.
    You can just touch him on his thighs and work up, or his chest and stomach and work down and by the time you get there, he'll probably already be hard. You can then give him a hand job and lead it to sex.
    To find out what he personally likes best and where he likes to be touched, because everybody is different, just watch his reactions and listen to his noises and you'll find out what gets him the most.
    I think for positions, safe bets are doggie and cowgirl, since those are most peoples favorites. Then you can lead on to others from there to find out what is best for both of you. Some positions work best for one couple while others will work best for another couple.

    Most people have a lot of fun at the start of a sexual relationship, because it's fun learning what works for you both and what each other likes best.
    So just have fun and relax :)

    • Thanks! Yep, me with my boytoy, lol. I appreciate tthe advice I'm so out of practice, slowly get back I to the swing of things, so to speak.

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  • A nice hand and blow job always work for me, but you need to know how to control it so he would continue with entertaining inside you and not cum when you are sucking 😀

  • Has P*rnography been banned in your country?

    • He doesn't like to watch p*rn very often, he finds he overs the top. I already asked him about it.

    • I wasn't referring to him, I was referring to you. Maybe you can learn from it.

    • I've seen p*rn, and most I seen does the exactly the same foreplay each time.

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  • Why are you with a 20 y/o if you're 26? Don't women find younger men very unattractive?

    Anyways, what really turns me on is just rolling around and such. Like "play fighting" almost. Her and i kissing changing positions on the couch and floor, etc.

    • Trust me, I fought the idea of the whole scenario at first, but then after talking to him a but and getting to know him, I figured why not see where everything leads. Well, he and I do a lot of "play fighting." I just wanted new things to try. Thanks! m

    • *a bit. Sorry autocorrect.

  • He's 20. You don't have to do much. Your existence is "foreplay".

    • True, but he seems more focused on getting me off than himself.

    • That's because he's 20, impressionable, and has been told that "She cums first", and nothing you do will change that. Don't even try.

    • Thank you of or the advice. I appreciate it.

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