Dirty anal sex is ok?

It is a fact very well known that most men love anal sex this way or that way... and when they do they always ask for it. how ever it is another known fact that anal sex needs preparation before... maybe not a full enema but at least emptying of the bowels... and when things get spur of the moment... you dont have the time or the place for a proper bowel cleansing.. and during anal, practically shit happens. so what i am wondering is that, should a woman say no to anal sex when she is not properly prepared and when you do, do guys say "ok.. lets not then" or "no problem.. lets" it isn't a very good scene when shit happens... isn't it.
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  • Honestly this is the only anal sex question that I've seen here that actually seems to be searching for real, informative answers to A++ on that.

    I'm not sure how to personally respond since anal isn't something me or my partner are into, but from what I've heard from friends who like to overshare is that most guys have a good inclination of the "risks" sort of speak of going in on a whim. If not then he shouldn't dive dick first into things he knows nothing about.

    • Thanks for MHGal.

  • Hi Ms Red, My sister and I took an "Anal Sex 101" class, among others, in San Francisco with live instruction. I have a "Colon Hydrotherapy" cleansing device like the porn stars use. I do it 1-2 times per week. I would love to render any advice if you still need it :) Laurie

  • If he doesn't care I don't care if you do anal and expect it to be super clean don't do it. I enjoy anal sex so if it gets messy who cares

    • Now that is a very womanly answer. If you play in the mud, expect to get dirty. Isn't that part of the fun?

    • Best answer here. People expect it to be clean when it’s the dirtiest part of the body. Just like you said if it gets messy, who cares? Just clean up after it’s not hard lol. Me and my ex never prepped.

    • Yep, it's bound to happen at some point why spoil the fun by stopping just sort it all out when the fun is over

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  • Good question... sometimes it is hard to know how full your bowels are.

    • Yep. And usually, there is one way to find out...

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  • When I put my dick in there, I know the risks. I know exactly what comes out of there and it does happen sometimes. I have no problems with it. It can always be cleaned. It's not something I can hold against her nor would I. First, it would just make her uncomfortable and self-conscious and never want to do it again. Second, it is normal and is to be expected. If you think anal is like in porn movies every time, then it's not for you.

  • Most guys would say "I don't care, let's do anal anyway." Same thing applies to when a girl is on here period "We'll clean up the mess later, let's just have sex".

    • so practically you are ok when you have poo on your penis... doesn't that make you feel disgusted from the woman after a while if you remember the scene. like hell yeah you want to go on like that during sex... but lets say after 2 days.. you remember the scene... are you ok with that.

    • OK so wow. Something happened to you. Can you say exactly what it was? Of course I have had poo on my penis. i never look at a girl differently after that. After all, we are only human. If I did not give her a chance to clean out, then that is on me not her. Literally. I have never embarrassed a woman by stopping in the middle -- and expecting to clean out her ass. Is that what happened to you? I always keep the focus on finishing first -- or more importantly -- make sure she finishes. It is amazing how insignificant a little poop is after an amazing orgasm. All that said, some women do like the "extra full" feeling when they are full and having anal. To avoid the mess, I have her clean out. Then a fill her ass with a cool white cream with no scent or color. Then have anal. This heavy fluid in her ass gives her that "full" and "Constant Urge" feeling all during the sex. More than once, I have started to cum and her orgasm blew all the cream and my dick out of her ass. WOW. Strong and powerful. So you have all those feelings -- none of the mess. Plus, your skin is moisturized!

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  • Dirty anal sex is more than okay if you are a dirty anus.

  • If it's a decent man with a sense of pride, he would go along with your wishes. Any fart who wants to rush it back in to the ass is not worth your time.

  • Its all part of the fun if u don't wanna get dirty don't do it :-P

  • No definitely take all the time you need and only do it in optimum of conditions

  • Eww anal not for mah PP

  • Not for me at all... vaginal only !!

  • I prefer to prep before doing anal so we could both enjoy ourselves with nothing to worry about

  • Anlni sex is disgusting to me. I love vagina, not anus.

  • i would never have anal sex without a condom no matter how clean she is. it can happen that poop particles go inside your urinary tract and if they can't remove it and the infection is too intense they have to cut off your dick.

    so no thanks.

  • hence the reason I am not extremely fond of anal. I do it if it is pre planned, but it is not a very favourite of mine.

  • I can't believe sometimes u are from Mardün 🙈

    • Kürt işte :D

    • Jan1ssary_, are u kurdish?

    • @shipoopi No? Lol I am Turk.

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  • Be straight up let him know what's going on that you may need to use the restroom or something and make sure he knows that it's not just an excuse to get out of it

  • If you don’t want to then that’s fine. If you want to just prep like how you said first. Don’t be surprised if it gets dirty it’s literally the dirtiest part of the body lol. Prepping is optional but most people do it. Anal is dirty and no matter how much you prep it will never fully be clean. Anal can get smelly if the woman hasn’t showered either. Accidents can happen but the chances are slim to none. Im sure people would have enough common sense to prevent accidents from happening but still anything can happen. I do like anal because it’s a super low to 0 percent chance of the woman to get pregnant and it feels way more tighter. It can hit the right spot for the woman too.

  • I'd prefer they are properly prepared. Honestly, though, when a guy is fingering a woman, you can tell if a woman is "not ready"", since you can feel through the vaginal wall to their rectum. At that point, you can forgo anal that day. It can prevent an embarrassing conversation.

    As in all things sexual, this is a key reason why a guy MUST know a woman's body.