I am a little confused because before this guy and I had sex it felt like we were in a relationship. He would take me out on dates, hold my hand and it just felt so real and we would have nice deep conversations and stuff. When we had sex the first time it was awesome and very romantic and again we talked for hours afterwards. Now after doing this a couple of times it doesn't feel the same anymore. The sex is not romantic and we don't really talk much.. he doesn't treat me like a date anymore it just feels like all we do is have sex.
Is this normally how guys behave?
Do all guys change after sex?
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 31If the primary reason that the guy is with you it's because of sex then after he bangs you she will probably look to have sex with someone else.
However if the reason that someone is with you is because of something additional to sex like you have a good personality or there is some intangible quality about your spirit that is irreplaceable and anyone else then he will probably stay
So are you saying if he continues to have sex with me after the first time he's interested in me as well or else he would just make me a one night stand?
Yes. But just make sure why he is having sex with you. Why are you having sex with him? Do you just like his body? His money? His social circle? What you can get from him? Or what you can give to him because you love him?
well quit putting out so much and do things you want to do. Make him go shopping with you. Shit that's all I see at the mall is a girl with her boyfriend.
He comes shopping with me actually.
Well I don't know what to say then. Do you initiate conversations with him? You need to start at this point, guys can't lead the way all the time it's too draining on us.
Pretty much yeah
Interesting.
Yes. Beard begins to faster growth. Just kidding. If I like the girl, sex deepen the relationship, if I don't like her sex is a little better than masturbation.
Thanks
Guys dont change after sex. Guys reveal themselves after sex.
Yeah we all do its like it turns us into a monster.
He could be using you as a pawn
if they are around your age that's all that they want
I wouldn't be so sure, lol but in this case it seems like it.
Not really, that's only half the fun, the other half is learning about her and hanging out.
I'm a little older though.
Although MrOracle has good points and I've always wondered about this. It seems like people hookup first, then the girl wants to date to avoid feeling like a whore.
@red324 "It seems like people hookup first, then the girl wants to date to avoid feeling like a whore. " I see what you mean but in the long term it doesn't work anyway because if you only just hook-up for sex and formed a relationship from it somehow (sick!, right?) later or sooner either of such partners will cheat anyway since it was formed from a hook-up. Also, I don't see it working anyway.
@CurrentGeneration People do it all the time, they hook up with random people at the bar. I'm not sure if I could do it, because who knows where she's been. lol
@red324 "People do it all the time, they hook up with random people at the bar. I'm not sure if I could do it, because who knows where she's been. lol " Hooray ADVENTURE TIME !! NOT...
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He is immature he got what he wanted he could at least talk to you about it live and learn you have a long life ahead of you
isn't the sex fun
How fun it is depends a lot on what the other person means to you.
Because you guys are just having sex and both of you aren't committed to each other. He didn't ask you to be his girlfriend
he gets what he wants so finish.
I have sex with escorts. I pay money for sex.
He was there for the sex...
Men are horn dogs who only care about sex
You mean the men you date.
@es20490446e i speak the truth about all men
That's not the truth, but an excuse.
@es20490446e an excuse for what? So you are telling me that straight men do not like fucking pussy?
That's not what you said.
booty call!
Of course not. Only players/pua's and douche bag guys change. Their only motive was sex.
A good guy/nice guy likes the girl AND wants to have sex with her. That's the difference which girls need to realize and stop rewarding bad people.
Can u help me out on a question pls
Sure what's your question?
The guy probably just wants sex. But this isn't a gender thing. I've had girls do it to where I have sex with them then never hear back.
Yeah that's why you should fuck other men behind his back. Keek things spicy and fun ! 😏😎😈💯♏️♏️♏️🆒🆗
Nasty gurl... xD
you are :P