Do all guys cum after less than 2 minutes?

Only had sex like 2 times, want to know if it's normal for a guy to be done in like a minute
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  • Depends on the lady, the foreplay, and how well he can control himself! 2 minutes is a joke, for most ladies, but what about the foreplay, and getting you aroused, and excited, for maybe a few hours, doing different things, or depending on what you call 'foreplay'?
    I like the more mature women, and they seem to understand the 'foreplay' idea, and it might take a full weekend, just being close, intimate, just simple things, like holding hands, or casual kisses, to start. Maybe cooking together, and snuggling, watching a movie, with no agenda. . .
    Making breakfast together, and being really close, all kinds of things!
    Use your imagination, and find some guy that really likes you and loves being really close, and making you feel good, and then, later, if you want, have sex.
    Sometimes I don't even need the sex, the orgasm, just loving being with her, so close, and just us, without any outside interruptions!

  • No. Unless he was very inexperienced. You learn control with experience. Was he using a condom. Using one greatly increases the time he takes. Especially the ones with desensitising agents in them.

    • Must not have had desensitizing agents. I should get him some

    • Another suggestion would be for him to masturbate first and start once he can get hard again. No man can cum fast after doing that. When I was inexperienced that worked for me.

    • Kinda ew

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not at all, no.

    That's likely just because he's still new to sex, but he should get better, with time. Most guys can last longer than that, and some can last a very long time.

    • Lol yes, my first time I lasted probably three thrusts and that was it! then i learned little by little how to control it. Next lesson was not to only thrust and learn actual moves. Most girls really don’t enjoy being hammered by a big appendage! Lol

  • It seems like it
    My current guy nuts in like a minute on his first load
    Thank god he can go for another round

    • So you guys usually do it several times each time?

    • @razzamatazzp01 Yes, he can deliver as many as three or four loads with some waiting in between

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  • I've read that the average length of intercourse is 7.5 minutes. Obviously there's a pretty big range. I've always been at the other end of the scale - I had to train myself to cum in about 20 minutes because some girls just can't go longer than that. My natural range is 30-40 minutes, but I learned that was too much for some girls, and too much can be just as bad as too little.

  • Absolutely not.

  • If I am incredibly horny and have the single desire to cum as quickly as possible, then 2 minutes is possible. But I have only done that during masturbation. But for sex I like to draw it out for a while, or at least until she has had at least one good orgasm. Having sex just to cum is boring to me. I like to stay focused and if I get too close I slow down or take a break for a bit (throw in a bit a "foreplay" while switching positions to buy time). If a guy consistently cums that quickly, then it is just selfish lovemaking.

  • Not the ones who actually know what they are doing.

  • lol if they are your age yeah but i won't go into how long the average guy takes seeing how i am not into guys and i dont know and i dont want to know lol.

  • not all of us, takes a bit of practice and control on both involved... longest i lasted for was about 1hr to 1hr 30... though the hour times were due to a girlfriend who knew how to help prolonge the experience and the 1hr 30 was due to medication i was on after a knee op and stomach op

  • if he has a hair trigger you could try asking him to masturbate an hour before you plan to have sex... that way he may last a lot longer. i certainly take longer than two minutes and i think most guys do to.

  • Only with little boys.

    Most of the women I date are between 19 and 25. On our first meeting I always ask, "Why do you like older men?

    The number one reason is "They don't expect me to pay [for a date]".
    The number two reason is "They know what they are doing in bed."

    Find an older guy who knows what he is doing and it won't be so fast.

  • If I’m getting head I try to let her take it out then start again to hold it for a few more minutes. If sex, I’ll pull out for a few more positions. When I was in my teens I’d get down for a few hours. Now I’m glad for both of us to finish in 10 minutes. Need energy for work the next day.

    • Wow in 30 seconds, you must be really good or he just isn’t releasing his juice before heading over. Tell him to not show up with a loaded barrel.

  • There's a number of factors that can affect that. How excited he is, his level of experience, where and how you're doing it as in are you very liable to get caught doing it in a public area or by parents. How good you are at exciting him and keeping him super excited/aroused. Most likely more reasons but an experienced guy can go almost as long as he wants but may have to pull out a cool down a bit from time to time, but can keep you going with his tongue and fingers.

  • There’s a wise range.
    Beyond the range, the more often a guy has sex the easier it is to control. So if you had a guy you slept with daily he’s likely to perform better than a random hookup.

  • Not at all. If he's just focused on his pleaures then maybe. If he wants to please you then no.

    I think most guys last like 7 mins. I on the other hand can have intercourse 15 to 20 mins and sex overrall for 3 hours to 5 hours. But i think most people have sex 30 mins and intercourse in that time for 7 mins.

  • With practice no. When we are solo the goal is to get done and out of the way. Some guys don't have the experience to go longer or care about pleasure for there partner. However there are many men who love to learn new ways to go longer and do better for her sake if not because they enjoy more time. A lot of it is just age and social pressure to be top dog. Eventually they will hit a point where being better means more then the number of people they have slept with.

  • Yeah, it's a rule. Prepare for a disappointing life.

  • it is normal, I think, because I don't think most guys practice self control. If you understand your body you can last longer, but if you just give in then yea, he's going to cum quickly. It's far easier for a man than it is a woman.

  • Thats pretty sad

    • It's kinda pathetic

  • No it's not

  • No they don't thankfully.

  • Yeah, many. But in my case, I last long and most of the girls cum faster than I do want to stop before I am done. Sometimes it's so hardcore that they have difficulty to walk. It's true though, sometimes they want to rest few minutes midway

  • Hell no we don't! It's not "normal" but it could be sign of medical problems like ED.

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