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Do all women finger themselves?

Being a guy, I assumed all women fingered themselves. Esp when going through puberty and those early sexual years. My thinking is that if women are worried or scared about what having a guy inside them would feel like, (ie would it hurt etc), wouldn't you use fingers or other ‘dildoish’ things to test it out? Like i would think all women have jammed a cucumber into their vagina since it would be larger then any cock and it would fill it up as much as possible.
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With the pictures and items I have seen, women don't even need a real cock. The dildo's and vibrators not only look like the real thing but some say they feel like the real thing. It will never go soft and many can vibrate. some can even shoot a cum like substance into you if you want the extra realism. Not sure why any woman would want a real guy at this point lol. For sex anyway. All guys have is the fleshlight. and that is nothing like a pussy.
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  • No, not all women do. First of all, cucumber? That's disgusting. Food in the vagina can cause an infection. Moving on...

    For many women, we are taught never to touch, sometimes not even to know the correct names for our anatomy. And we get told things like even using a tampon means you're not a virgin and nonsense like that. Not to mention, the vaginal walls are not terribly sensitive, so it doesn't even feel that fantastic to a lot of women.

    But, in general, women who masturbate to orgasm have better partnered sex.

    • Re: question update Very few women can orgasm from simple penis in vagina sex, only about 30%. The cock itself has never been that central to our pleasure as women, but having a flesh and blood lover IS a major pleasure.

    • yes, I know that. That is one reason I always worked at becoming very good at oral. On top of just loving doing it. Gives me a good reason to get some up close time with the best part ;). But, if a woman is controlling every part of it, that is different then having to depend on the guy to know what he is doing. A lot of women are not willing to "give directions" and a lot of men, unfortunately, get offended if she does. Men are as simple as it gets "friction + time = ejaculation". Unless there is some other medical or mental factor, that is 100% guaranteed. But women are a lot more complicated. Oral has always worked for me. But even that can be an issue. The 1st time with a new woman, almost every one has said "oh, you don't have to do that." But I love doing it so if they want to make me happy they need to let me. I mean I think it is a waste for a woman to give a guy a handjob. We do it way better ourselves. Sure I rather her do it, but it will never be as good as I can do.

    • What I have learned is if you know how the whole clitoris works, it's much more simple to get a woman off. And men are not as simple as you make them out to be. They have different tastes too. I speak often about how people need to create a safe space in which their partner can freely share needs, desires, etc. I GIVE directions. If a guy gets bugged, I just get up and put my clothes back on and go home. I run this pony ride, and if you don't like the direction my ponies go, you can just get the hell off, buckaroo. ;)

  • Yes, I believe there comes a time when a girl becomes curious and adventurous. I think, fingering ourselves was a start will all have in common. I never had to use a toy until I felt lonely & yearning for my boyfriend who was away for days. And, you're right, I too have jammed some other things (fruits, mop handles, etc.) into my pussy before I was gifted my 1st vibrator. Nowadays, I still have the trusty toys given to me by my gfs that I enjoy whenever I'm alone with nobody available to pleasure me.

    Do all women finger themselves?

    • I meant: "I think fingering ourselves was a start WE all MIGHT have in common."

  • Not all of them have, but I would say most have tried with their finger at least once. Few women have actually used something as big as a fuckin cucumber though, good lord that sounds awful. For some reason though, and I will never understand this because thus far I've only really been able to cum from penetration, a lot of women say that having fingers inside them doesn't actually feel good at all. Completely baffles me why that might be.

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  • No not all, i met girls before who hated doing that so they either just had sex with there partner or when single for a while bought a vibrator or dildo and used that.

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  • Nope. I hate being fingered or doing it myself, it just doesn’t feel good despite having attempted multiple times throughout the years. It just feels like a tampon or something, not very sexy.

    • There’s a percentage (like 6-8%) if women who can orgasm though penetration alone but I’m not one of em so I’ll stick to what feels good, if anything.

  • I don't enjoy fingering and never do it.

  • No, i don't. Some people don't even like masturbating

    • If only all women think like you... are you asexual or something else? Do you have sexual feelings? Just would like know before passing judgement you probably just don’t like sex. That’s why you can say that, that’s why I asked.

    • I wouldn't consider myself asexual. I pleasure myself, not frequently though, but in different ways other than fingering myself. I tried it twice years ago and it had no affect on me whatsoever, i didn't like it. I couldn't understand why a lot of girls did it, but later i realized that there are actually a lot of girls like me. I found that clitoral stimulation worked best. Of course at times, I have sexual feelings and I love sex, but I'm also a lesbian which means there's no penetration.

    • I revoke my statement in that case, don’t want other girls like you, no offense but I love women would love them to love me too.

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  • Why wife does not. Sad face.

    • Suppose to say, "My wife". Too much egg nog.

  • Fetuses masturbate in the womb.

    I remember my first memory of masturbating when I was 7 years old.

    • Okay, what? I guess you are early bloomer.

    • @Krumpir lOl

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