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56 70ha! yes.
If I'm already in the mood then I don't necessarily need it but if I'm not then yes I need foreplay to get there.
Virtually all women need foreplay for actually good sex. Foreplay makes their opening expand and causes their body to produce natural lubricant. In theory you can substitute this with artificial lube but you're just making it harder on yourself if you go this route. If you have trouble with finishing early just use a lot more foreplay. If you don't have that problem and have a ton of endurance you should use foreplay anyway. If you do it right she may have multiple orgasms. NEVER NEGLECT FOREPLAY. It may be possible to have good sex without foreplay but GREAT sex always includes foreplay AS WELL AS INTIMACY afterwards. (Give it like an hour or two of just intimacy with your partner after wards and it will provide a much better experience at least for her).
You know I never understood why a good majority of guys feel foreplay starts in the bedroom, it starts with text messages, gentle touches, sneaky pictures... it can start HOURS before you actually get to the room
That being said yes, foreplay is needed and wouldn't you want it!!!
Regardless of how wet she is, include it! She will be that much more willing and eager after it plus selflessness goes a long way
No but I suspect that in most cases where foreplay does not happen & she is turned on (without physical contact) she’s using memories of past foreplay events or even somebody else’s memory (movie/video/saw other couples making out). So in that sense it is kinda foreplay.
If you have good chemistry with someone it means you can trigger that stuff very, very easily in each other.
I’m not saying she would always be in the mood tho 😀
Some women are just absolute cum sluts.
It never hurts but isn’t always required sometimes we’re just good to go.
Yes! Of course!
What happens if you don't get foreplay? Do you go through with it?
Most of the time. But from time to time you can take us by surprise.
I think most of the time it's really important. Having said that I've had some great sex that was very passionate where we skipped foreplay. For the most part it does make a difference though.
What makes you want to skip foreplay?
I don't need much in order to be satisfied in bed. I can totally have a great sex session without foreplay. So no, not all women.
not all of them though some may fancy
My assumption is that most of the time it's appreciated, but sometimes you can have great sex by sneaking in a quickie in the Walmart dressing rooms without any foreplay.
No not needed if the man knows how to use his tool
So, you don't mind a guy just shoving it into you without any warning?
Yes I mind duh!
But if "he knows how to use his tool" then you wouldn't need prep like you said
BecUse if I already know he knows how to use it I'm going to be wet at the thought of getting it
So you're going to be wet all the time? Because then he cabln shove it in anytime. Otherwise you two are doing some sort of foreplay to get you fired up first
Omg really dude your clueless just forget it
No. You just can't explain it. You are engaging in foreplay. Just you don't know how to elaborate on it. I bet you have these crazy good ideas on your mind, but when it comes down to it you can't express yourself clearly
Unosey# you are definitely right there 👍 and any guy who knows how to use his tool/what to do definitely does NOT just "shove it in without warning" - duh! These young ones, hmm... I'm not gonna elaborate more here on a public post however.😀
PhilTee - exactly!
😀 now following you...
great sex is possible without foreplay, but foreplay makes sex better.
No, but it helps. Sometimes it’s just like let’s get down to business, but about 95% of the time, I’ve got to be warmed up first for it to be good.
How long do you believe foreplay should last?
@awesomespoken As long as it takes. 20 minutes is usually plenty, but sometimes I just like to play a lot. When I get in one of those really playful moods, it might last over an hour. Not because I’m not turned on and ready, but because I’m having so much fun playing around.
What's your favorite foreplay activity? Mine is kissing, necking, biting and ass grabbing and hip grinding
@awesomespoken I like kissing and just being touched. I like being touched sort of like being felt up, but not like all gropey. Soft, loving touches. And I like oral.
So you prefer romance over aggressiveness? Like lustful rough play? You mean giving or receiving oral?
@awesomespoken I usually prefer romance. I mean both for oral. Giving and receiving, I like both.
Are you single? Because you sound like my dream girl
@awesomespoken No. I’m engaged actually.
That doesn't mean we can't be friends does it? Because you're still an girl. I can't hold it against you just because you're getting engaged
@awesomespoken We can be friends.
Nice I'll message you then
Most but not all. I personally hate it but it’s more because I hate the having attention on me it honestly turns me off. But every other girl I know needs it.
Would you prefer a guy just thrusting himself inside you when you aren't prepped?
Id rather make out for a bit, then give him a bj, then start. I absolutely hate having attention and being looked at. Wanna make me dry as a dessert then look at me. I’m usually well wet enough after some smooches anyways!
I don’t really need much honesty. Any bjs or anything are mainly about him feeling good, my thoughts alone will have me waiting for him ready.
So then it sounds like you get turned on by pleasing a man rather than being pleased. You are a rare breed of women and I envy any and all who have had the pleasure. But why do you dislike being looked at when you are so Damn sexy?
Because I don't know just one of those things ya know. He matters more in my opinion. And well I don't know who knows what he’s thinking, I may look fat, or just weird.
Well to me you matter more. Since I'm all about pleasing you. So I'm curious what the dynamics would be if I had the pleasure...
Honestly I haven’t even kissed a guy in years haha, I’m not really experienced enough to actually say. I stopped dating l
Last time i was cheated on. Sorry my phone is broken haha!
Haha it's alright. All this is good information to me. If you want we can talk about it more in chat
Haha just don’t become creepy
If I do creep you out just say the safe word... it's papaya
Oh But you gotta follow me back first
It depends on what you mean by great sex, everyone has a different opinion as to what is great sex.
I know a few females that are into quickie sex, the say it is great sex and in most cases they don't have time for foreplay.
Some women need it some don't. In my case foreplay is very important for leading to great sex. I don't mind long slow or hard foreplay. Makes me really horny n ready for real action. It's kind of build up for great sex.
What would you define as hard foreplay? Choking? Spitting in your mouth? Slapping your face?
Why would you skip on foreplay? Teases greatly enhance the experience and strength of anyone's orgasm male or female.