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Do "body deformities" and imperfections matter a lot?

I'm a female who doesn't happen to have the most desirable body by any means. I don't exactly have much to "offer" and my body is littered with imperfections. For example, my breasts are assymetrical in size, and I'm actually missing some skin off the tip of one of my nipples (don't ask me how it happened... I don't remember). Do people (in general, your gender doesn't matter) really care about these sort of things? I'm incredibly self-conscious and thinking about being naked in front of anybody makes me feel incredibly uncomfrotable. If you've been in a relationship with someone with "deformities" like this, would you be disgusted in any sort of way? I think that I may be overthinking about this... but I may be wrong. I'd prefer if you were as honest as possible!
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  • Unless you are an 18yo, you're in the majority. Vast majority of women have unequal breasts, especially as you get older. It's environmental. What it means is that our environment changes power bodies. For example, if you like to sleep on the left side, over the years, your right breast will stretch a little more than your left one and as a result will hang lower and look a little different.
    Also, consider this: one in three women has a third nipple. It appears as a mark or a bump on the body, usually below the breast area. Not very perfect or simmetrical, is it?
    Also consider this: there is NO man who's genitalia is perfect. Some have scrotums that hang lower than their penis. Some have penises that that curve in some strange direction.

    Point is: humans are not perfect! Those that look for body perfection instead of character are only going to find one night stands and loneliness.
    Free yourself from the prison of impossible expectations you created for yourself and let your character free!!!
    Men can tell if a woman is a prisoner of her own prison of impossible expectations. We call those women "crazy bi***". Free yourself and men will flock to you!

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have several problems of my own and I am very self-conscious with a very low self of esteem.
    I am not going to lie and say that "deformities" don't matter at all, they obviously do, but it depends on the situation and your "deformities" doesn't sound terribly bad. If the situation is built on sexual or physical attraction will make your "deformities" a lot more of a deal; however, I doubt they will be that important in a more spiritual relationship. In other words, they will matter a lot in a booty call relationship but won't matter as much with a boy/girlfriend that likes you for you. Most girls have slightly uneven breasts and the skin missing from your nipple probably isn't big enough to be more than an interesting aspect, unless it causes irritation or pain to you when touched or other things done to it.
    For the most part, I beleave that your "deformities" won't detour many people. Let me know if you have any questions or comments and I will try to help more.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My favorite pron star has asymmetrical boobs and she looks hot AF. Don't worry about your imperfections too much.

  • Imperfections make people interesting nobody wants to date Barbie or Ken.

    • Well nobody wants to date a mutant either

    • @ravagesavage Hey, I don’t kink shame … okay, that’s a lie, I kink shame all the fucking time, it’s my kink.

    • Ok nice im trash thanks i love you

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  • Breast asymetry is actually the norm not the exception. In fact body asymetry is the norm not the exception (your dominant side (right usually) tends to be slightly larger then the other side.). You probably are more aware of it because you see it and are looking for it (kind of like how a pixel on a monitor or TV goes out and you never notice it until some one points it out and then you can't stop seeing it).
    I would say this is probably not an issue, at best a minor one if its noticable (and I doubt many if any would (again we tend to hone in on our own imperfections while others simply cannot see them).

    So I would say don't worry about it.

  • Minor imperfections don't makes a girl ugly and unattractive, also it looks like most of your concerns are about your breasts, and you can have sex with a bra on, but your guy would likely prefer boyfriend would likely prefer for you to take your bra off during sex, despite the imperfections.

  • Young people want airbrushed perfection. As guys age, far less so. Seek out older guys who will value your personality and youth. "Imperfections" just become part of the terrain.

  • Everyone has imperfections. Most girls have one breast larger than the other for example. Guys have imperfections too. For instance one tesicle blogger than the other like me. Some have dicks the curve left, right, up, down, instead of straight.

    I'd never look at an imperfection as a reason not to be with someone. Physical perfection is impossible, and by no means does an imperfect body mean you're any less desirable than anyone else.

    As for the missing piece of skin, just tell them you got that fighting off the evil witch of the west while you were visiting Oz. It's not exactly the truth, but will relieve any tension you have from the laughter.

    • Haha, thank you so much for your answer! I feel a lot better :-)

    • Glad I could helped

  • Yes, WAY WAY WAY overthinking it. Simply clueless.
    Having a partner, someone you love, is about THEM, not YOU. Quit focusing on you and focus on THEM. You'll get WAY more out of it, I guarantee it.

  • If a guy reacts badly to any imperfections after you deem him worthy of seeing you naked that is fantastic!!! Perfect time to immediately kick his ass out the door and not waste any time with him.

  • Lol everybody has assymetrical breasts. That's not an issue.

  • No, those little imperfections make us who we are; anyone worth letting see that much of your body shouldn't give a shit anyhow.

  • if the person really loves you... it dont matter...
    y'all people put too much stock and emphasis on sects and being naked

  • First of all... they aren't "deformities". I'm probably not the best person to ask... I'm probably the least judgmental person you'll ever meet... especially when it comes to appearance and sex... I can't think of anything more exciting than the body of a naked woman. Shape size color age... doesn't change the attraction I feel when i see them... all of them.. the vulnerability/trust alone is arousing...

  • What you need to realize is these things are what you were born with.
    That’s part of who you are, part of your femininity and your sexuality.
    That’s what makes you different from other girls, you are special.
    Learn to love your body!
    A confident girl is the sexiest girl.

  • i am one of the rare guys i look at the heart not the outside

  • Nooo im fine i have a bigger ball then another it likes to hang lower than the other one and my uncircumcised penis is pretty ugly feom me beating on it. Im more into a girls ass then her boobs☺😘😘👍👍.

  • No not really.

  • Yes ,, I also have dick deformities , and it's hurts sometimes

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